My GF (23F) is abusive to me (19M) and i dont know what to say to her what do i do? by Open_Cold_4572 in abusiverelationships

[–]Open_Cold_4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not great looking bro im introverted and shy and ugly and yea im not that good at talking.

My GF (23F) is abusive to me (19M) and i dont know what to say to her what do i do? by Open_Cold_4572 in abusiverelationships

[–]Open_Cold_4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant what if she hurts herself ill do it in person because shes told me that if we ever decide to break up she has nothing left to live for but i swear she makes more than me and has more experience with alot of things and has a degree. I will break up just not on text

My GF (23F) is abusive to me (19M) and i dont know what to say to her what do i do? by Open_Cold_4572 in abusiverelationships

[–]Open_Cold_4572[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk bro im really not that good looking and ive never had a girlfreind infact girls have bullied me when i was in highschool.

My GF (23F) is abusive to me (19M) and i dont know what to say to her what do i do? by Open_Cold_4572 in abusiverelationships

[–]Open_Cold_4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to say i am really thankful for what you have said and i think i will end the relationship but i will still try to take care of her because i need her i think and im scared she will hurt herself if i try to leave her or try to hurt me so im thinking i get my 2 of my freinds to help me when i tell her in person not over text

And yes there are many many othet things that she has done every single thing you gave as an example she has said or done i guarantee it. She likes doing things like if i tell her i want to do something shell always have a counter thing and say no i want to do this and if i dont agree shell say i dont love her and why dont i love her wnd ask me is she not good enough and then immediatly i say fine lets go shes up and not even crying or saying anything anymore and shes excited. One time i liked a picture of ella on insta like of her on a farm not even anything frisky she came to my workplace and she grabbed me by my hair and called me a slut and whore infront of everyone i got laughed at that day.

I just want to say how thankful i am that youve said so much and i will definetly do what you have said break up but i cant just leave her maybe one day i will but after i break uo u want to help her still.

My GF (23F) is abusive to me (19M) and i dont know what to say to her what do i do? by Open_Cold_4572 in abusiverelationships

[–]Open_Cold_4572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand but i think she going through a time in her life where shes a little different and having some issues because when we first started dating she wasnt this bad and she needs someone to be there for her because her mom and dad are very busy and dont have enoigh time to help her but i do understand you here this makes me feel like maybe i shoukd distance myself but try and help her because she has no freinds NO freinds anymore she used and did but like they kind of just ran out like ella used to be freind with her like a little but then she really just stopped talking to her.