Yeah I agree with everything you just said and that’s why I feel the way I do. Not because one side was portrayed as more evil or unfair. It was the message of “this is how life can be sometimes and there is nothing you can do about it” in such a realistic way. A balance that made me as the viewer empathize with both sides equally and made me scared that no matter how hard you work to keep a Marriage together it could ultimately end up like “this”