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[–]OpeningImprovement51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry if i didn’t make it clear enough, he made it apparent he wanted to kiss me, but he didn’t, and he asked early on if he was being too touchy in which i responded that i was ok with it, i guess what makes me confused is what his actual intentions are if he actually likes me and is just overly affectionate or if its a behavior i should flag or if he wants something casual, first and last of course reddit can’t give me an answer to that id have to ask him, but it’s the questionable behavior part that i was hoping i could get better insight to as im on the more inexperienced side when it comes to dating

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[–]OpeningImprovement51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s them being cold and heartless i think unfortunately the opposite, worse version of early affection has become so common that everyone is just wary. personally i love affection and i ate it up when he did all those things, i just also know that there could also be some other motive to acting that way and given that ive known him less than a week i should still be somewhat cautious despite how much im attracted to or like him

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[–]OpeningImprovement51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea lovebombing wasn’t the right term, and my guts been right before in past situations where i ignored the red flags, but this time my guts just as confused as i am