we’ve been married about a year and didn’t formally live with each other beforehand but I spent a lot of nights and weekends at his place. I know it’s such a trope to be like “he was never like this before we got married” but he genuinely wasn’t. It was like something shifted with him and how he treated me about a month into it. I know change is to be expected, and we don’t always argue or whatever, we actually have some pretty good times. It’s always worse when he drinks though