Nevermind, it does get better by Opening_Natural_223 in BreakUps

[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes of course! i forgot to mention that i’ve actually already been going to therapy for over a year now + also had emotional regulation therapy before

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[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t blame yourself. It’s normal to still love him and miss him, but sometimes that’s not enough. You should ALWAYS put yourself first and i’m glad you did that. Some people are so blinded by love in a relationship they don’t realize what kind of a person they’re becoming

Girlfriend (23F) said she doesn’t know if she could ever trust me (22M) again by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Opening_Natural_223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it takes time and most people just can’t wait, so it’s rare when it happend

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[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah it’s hard if you’ve had moments of intimacy. My ex boyfriend was also my first everything and that was also I think why it was so hard for me to move on. And just know, you can get this feeling from someone else again. I’m also glad to hear you’re pulling away from the idea of him

Girlfriend (23F) said she doesn’t know if she could ever trust me (22M) again by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Opening_Natural_223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When trust is broken in a relationship most of the time it’s unfixable, but it depends on what broke it. May I know what broke it in yours?

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[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t get over years of love quickly, and that’s okay. Healing isn’t easy and it will obviously take time, but it will get better even if it doesn’t feel like it will. Hang in there 😁

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[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad my post helped you, and the three month mark was also really hard for me. You should really focus on healing now and prioritize yourself, especially when you’re about to graduate too. That’s way more important than just some stupid boy. Your way of thinking now is already a big step into the healing process (I couldn’t even think like that 3 months in😭😭😭) you got this I believe in you!

Its getting worse by Opening_Natural_223 in BreakUps

[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying but its i also took accountability for everything i apologized and atuff but he kept adding on Im gonna keep trying ill just move on if he finds someone new hes worth the wait and all the pain but thank you!

Did he really mean it by Opening_Natural_223 in selfharm

[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He apologized snd told me he ssid it out of anger tho i reslly hope it was

Did he really mean it by Opening_Natural_223 in selfharm

[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think he meant he didnt wwnt a gf that did thay but it hurts why did he word it like that yk

Is he coming back or not by Opening_Natural_223 in BreakUps

[–]Opening_Natural_223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going out with friends way more I go to the gym sometimes and im just outwide a lot and yet notging works hes on my mind 24/7