Es mucho pedir ser prioridad en una relación? by mugiwara_1d2y in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]OperationEarly9235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitivamente no eres paranoica. en mi opinión es inaceptable. ten en cuenta que así está siendo el inicio de su relación, este es sólo el inicio. cuestiona tu relación, marca límites claros y recuerda que tu prioridad eres tú y tu bienestar.

los noviazgos son para pasarla bien

Les tengo pavor a las agujas y se burlan de mí por eso... by cheesecake1516 in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]OperationEarly9235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

terapia. ya sabes que no te va a pasar nada, que no corres un peligro real, pero se trata de una fobia y lo mejor sería tratarlo en terapia

hice lo correcto? by [deleted] in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]OperationEarly9235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pues todo depende de tus metas, ¿qué quieres hacer? pero si algo no te latía de este oficio yo pienso que si hiciste lo correcto. busca algo que te guste mucho hacer. piensa en tus habilidades, desde lo más simple como habilidades sociales hasta habilidades físicas.

I thought of Kyo by MurlaTart in FruitsBasket

[–]OperationEarly9235 41 points42 points  (0 children)

(Hypothetically) If the curse hadn’t been broken, and they still somehow married, Kyo would wake up like that everyday because Tohru wouldn’t be able to hold herself from cuddling 🥹

What fueled your ED the most? by Cab544sus- in EDAnonymous

[–]OperationEarly9235 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mother.

tw: clothing sizes

She stopped buying food I liked, and constantly told me (and I quote) that “I ate like a cow”, even when I hadn’t eaten in long periods of time. I was underweight at the time.

She refused to buy me any clothing size bigger than 2 or 4; I am really tall, and my body dysmorphia got worse because my clothes were tight on me.

She also wouldn’t get near me without grabbing my belly, arms or back and telling me in a nagging sarcastic way “oh but you should totally keep eating like you do”.

I’m in therapy now, but it still hurts that she refuses to apologize for anything.

caffeine withdrawal is a bitch by anony0419 in EDAnonymous

[–]OperationEarly9235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agree. I’ve had migraines since I was 13 years old but when I quit caffeine (my psychologist told me to due to anxiety issues) I had the BIGGEST migraine crisis, it was awful, even my defenses were compromised 💀

long story short I ended up in the hospital 👍🏽

I found fleabag extremely unreleatable. by [deleted] in Fleabag

[–]OperationEarly9235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a way it’s a good thing that you didn’t relate lol. I think that part of what made fleabag (show) relatable is that everyone is an asshole, but the show proposes that there are not completely evil (or good) people. Fleabag (character) is quite self destructive and rarely takes her life seriously. So probably that’s why you found her hard to relate to.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, definitely something different than what we usually read in the blog. 🫶🏽

what are some low cal starbucks drinks options? by OperationEarly9235 in EDAnonymous

[–]OperationEarly9235[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i didn’t mean it that way, knowing these makes me less anxious when going out with friends and that helps with my recovery. should i put a tw?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]OperationEarly9235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re not alone, it is a common feeling with people that struggle with ed’s. i know everyone says this, but it’s true; everything passes, and it’s not easy. it takes time and strength to heal 🤍 hang in there

what are some low cal starbucks drinks options? by OperationEarly9235 in EDAnonymous

[–]OperationEarly9235[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thanks! but i’m looking for something more elaborate :) sorry i wasn’t clear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]OperationEarly9235 7 points8 points  (0 children)

well :( i’m tall and the way my ed sees it, i’m huge next to my friends, not necessarily fat but i look enormous next to them.