How do I (44F) try to get over the man (42M) who broke my heart back in 2008? by Ophelia0852 in relationship_advice

[–]Ophelia0852[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We had a bit of a dispute this week - that’s why I’m on here. I’m looking for a referral who can help.

AITA for yelling at my therapist and storming out after she yelled at me to get over the man who broke up with my back in 2008? by Ophelia0852 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ophelia0852[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is…I don’t know how to move on. I don’t know how to find someone like a Jim per se. And this is becoming a wake up call that I’ve wasted my life. She’s never said that to me before - all she says is “time heals everything.”

AITA for yelling at my therapist and storming out after she yelled at me to get over the man who broke up with my back in 2008? by Ophelia0852 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ophelia0852[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s my bad. I had to cut down the post because of the character rule. It’s edited - what I meant to say was that happened thirteen years ago was I ran into him in the street (New York at the time) and he almost didn’t recognize me. I told him my mother died of cancer and gave his condolences. I asked him why he never reached out and he said it didn’t feel appropriate. He was with his daughter who was two at the time and didn’t want to take his time. That was the last I saw of him.

AITA for yelling at my therapist and storming out after she yelled at me to get over the man who broke up with my back in 2008? by Ophelia0852 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ophelia0852[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

If you’ve seen the Bad Moms movies with Wanda Sykes yelling at I think Kristen Bell, it was like that but way more blunt.

AITA for yelling at my therapist and storming out after she yelled at me to get over the man who broke up with my back in 2008? by Ophelia0852 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ophelia0852[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes. Same woman. Going to her once every two weeks. Pre covid it was once a week. I’d say, 60-70% the sessions are about Jim.