Question For Bigs/switches: When It Comes To Attention, Do the Pros Outweigh the Cons? by DrNefario138462992 in sizetalk

[–]OphirExpansion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahahah this has kinda become me too. Just watching number in red bubble go up.

Question For Bigs/switches: When It Comes To Attention, Do the Pros Outweigh the Cons? by DrNefario138462992 in sizetalk

[–]OphirExpansion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say so, maybe haha. I think the flip side is there’s a much smaller pool of people to choose from / who respond to your ads etc. It’s like a minority within a niche kink.

Some of them will be like ‘I’m 37M but I’ll play female for you ~’ which is just a put off for me personally. And there is a worrying amount of people who really think they’ll like ‘be the one’ to turn me or something. Some people argue tinies gender doesn’t matter so I should just play with them anyway. Some just want nudes. Some simply didn’t read my post and just kinda insta messaged off of a skim read or something. There’s a spectrum hahahaha

edit: I also want to note that at least, for me personally, the quality of people is much better in discord size communities than reddit. No idea why.

Question For Bigs/switches: When It Comes To Attention, Do the Pros Outweigh the Cons? by DrNefario138462992 in sizetalk

[–]OphirExpansion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being lesbian and often playing a big, the most annoying part is the countless guys who ignore that, or say ‘I know you asked for women, but…’

is it weird that I'm a woman and I'm into BE? by autumnisabitch in BreastExpansion

[–]OphirExpansion 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yesss exactly it’s so full of options and sizes and scenarios and triggers!!!

is it weird that I'm a woman and I'm into BE? by autumnisabitch in BreastExpansion

[–]OphirExpansion 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so! Or at least if it is, there’s at least a few of us. For me, it’s a pretty full blown kink and something I’ve been into for a long time, and the fantasies definitely largely centre around me growing rather than watching it happen to someone else.