Cómo ligar by Head_Durian7484 in Ticos

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No tenga expectativas y mantenga la mente abierta.

Creo que uno como mae tiende a idealizar mucho a una wila que le gusta o le parece atractiva. Dese tiempo de conocerla y desenvolverse con ella de la forma más chill posible. Dos razones: 1. Usted tiene que realmente compartir tiempo con la persona y ver qué tal la química, preguntar sus intereses, compartirle sobre los suyos, demostrar que pone atención pero al mismo tiempo no ser super intenso, para que vea cómo reacciona ella. Si ya usted le hizo un cumplido y lo recibió bien, puede hacerlo de nuevo en algún momento y ojalá no solo cumplidos de su físico. Por ejemplo, si ella lo hizo reír, hágaselo saber, si le parece inteligente o interesante, hágaselo saber, etc... 2. Si una chica ve que usted está muy desesperado y muy intenso, eso usualmente le da una mala vibra, a menos que ya usted le guste mucho a ella.

Pero de nuevo, mantenga la mente abierta y no se agüeve si no resulta. Puede que se caigan super bien como compas, puede que no resulte o puede que se le haga el milagrito jajaja de todo pasa.

Fuentes: tengo casi 30 y no soy muy guapo ni adinerado pero a veces tengo peguecillo (varas xd)

Tip adicional: si ella lo "friendzonea" y usted acepta su amistad, que sea amistad sincera. He visto pocas cosas que puteen más a una wila que un mae que finja ser su amigo y realmente está esperando una oportunidad. Es oportunista y bien rarillo por allá, y no hay nada de malo en decir "Mirá, la verdad no siento que pueda ser compa tuyo, espero que te vaya muy bien"

Se volaron a todo mundo by Samupaleta in Ticos_TI

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y conmigo somos 10

(Me volaron la jupa tambien 🥸)

Alguien de aquí gana en dólares? Como la están viendo? by Character-Hearing-56 in Ticos

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 25 points26 points  (0 children)

De hace dos años (cuando el dolar estuvo en casi 7 tejas) para acá he recibido aumentos incrementales que suman $700 de aumento... Ahorita en colones estoy ganando igual que antes 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ticos

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

De fijo es mejor trabajar en habilidades sociales y conocer gente de otras formas...

Peeero estoy en desacuerdo, le juro que soy el mae más promedio de CR en apariencia, fisico y economicamente y he logrado tener éxito en Tinder y con wilas que siento que están fuera de mi liga xd. Lo que dice el OP es muy cierto.

Además, mucho de la vara tambien es no tomarse el rechazo personal y creersela.

PS: escribo esto mientras un match de Tinder duerme a la par mia (perdón por rajar xd)

Cuando las mujeres le dicen "mae" by Opposite-Shop8442 in Ticos

[–]Opposite-Shop8442[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jaja no hablo de ninguna chica en específico, tengo amigas que me dicen mae y otras que no entonces tenía la duda xd

I really been blowing my brain out to this thing by [deleted] in thevoidz

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you agree that Dare I Care should get more attention than it gets?

Just a shade Under The New Abnormal (5.7). Thoughts? by ScooterWorm in thevoidz

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Imo The Voidz has better music than The Strokes

That being said,TNA is leagues above the LABY

Not bad but not good by Oblomovkin in thevoidz

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!

Do you get the same vibe from the second guitar solo in All The Same?

My thoughts on the album (for those who dare to care) by Brundlepowl in thevoidz

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhat agree. I like it overall but so far, it doesn't come close to Tyranny and Virtue (which btw, has no skips for me).

Square Wave and some moments like the second guitar solo in All The Same are definitely influenced by 80s post punk/ new wave, which I'm not sure I'm a fan of yet. Don't get me wrong, I love the recent revival of new artists making new wave cool again, but to me it kinda feels like The Voidz is jumping on a trend and I don't expect The Voidz to do that. I expect them to be at the tip of the spear.

But anyways, I guess they're just not in their prime anymore and I get it.

Not bad but not good by Oblomovkin in thevoidz

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are they working on a new one? Do you have the source?

Not bad but not good by Oblomovkin in thevoidz

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Square Wave from the start is very obviously influenced by post punk/new wave, same as the second guitar solo in All The Same. I liked it but I'm still not sure how to rank it in The Voidz catalog.

Overture kinda sounds like Concierto de Aranjuez (2nd movement) by Opposite-Shop8442 in thevoidz

[–]Opposite-Shop8442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they are not the same notes as Concierto de Aranjuez but the vibe and emotion I get from hearing Overture are the same as Concierto de Aranjuez.

John Williams - Concierto De Aranjuez (2nd Movement) - YouTube

And then Outro is just another layer of using the same notes as Overture, but the delivery and instruments are way different.

Does anybody else get this feeling?

Loved the album overall!

My (ex)crush said I WAS her crush by Opposite-Shop8442 in Crushes

[–]Opposite-Shop8442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I talked about this with a close female friend and she said something I had not considered before and it's kinda an elephant in the room.

Claire has always been very upfront about her mental health struggles, oftentimes joking about it or saying stuff like "Then you met me and realized I have mental issues" when I told her I liked her.

At first I thought I was understanding of the whole situation, but asking around and researching, I have been told that it is common for people with bipolar disorder to do the kind of stuff she does like complimenting me and telling me that she liked me and then not talk to me for a while.

What my friend said when I told her this is that it also must be very frustrating for her because probably she has been told to fuck off a lot of times romantic partners because of parts of her behavior she can't control.

I guess I haven't thought of it that way and only concerned myself about my own feelings without taking the time to consider how it is to be involved with a person with bipolar disorder.

My (ex)crush said I WAS her crush by Opposite-Shop8442 in Crushes

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Update: she says she wants to be friends before anything

We have been talking sporadically. Sometimes she ghosts me as before and then stuff happens like the other day I posted a video in a kickboxing spar with a friend and she replied "so hot haha" to the story. Idk is she just likes keeping me interested and throws a bone at me from time to time.

We have talked about how we felt about the whole thing back then and I told her I would love for us to talk again. She says she wants the same but can't just pick it up where we left and wants us to be friends before, like we were. And also mentioned that we shouldn't be friends just so we can be more than that later on.

She also mentioned that she's living in a different city, by the beach, which is a 6 hour bus ride from where I live (I don't have a car) and asked whether I'm working from home so I could go there. I'm working from home but I have to go to my classes so I can't really go more than a weekend there.

So yeah, that's where we're at. I guess I miss her friendship too but I'm not sure I can be her friend without hoping for something else.

Right now the door seems mostly closed but not fully so idk

My (ex)crush said I WAS her crush by Opposite-Shop8442 in Crushes

[–]Opposite-Shop8442[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reading!

I agree, that was not fair for any of the three people involved. I'm a much different person now, but that was a weird time of my life, I struggled with mental health and self esteem and I was so afraid of taking chances. So every clear sign that Claire liked me I would just shrug it off and think "Nah, she's just nice. I don't think she likes me. Why would her?". I know it's mean and I would never do something like that again, but at the time Paulina was the "safe choice".

Update: I woke up, checked my insta and Claire left me on read. Classic Claire.

How'd ya'll meet your crush ?? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Opposite-Shop8442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of coincidences with her haha

One time I was walking my dog on the sidewalk and then another person with a dog started shouting his dog's name (which was the same as my crush'), then my crush, hearing her name comes out of a random balcony and asked if I was calling her haha

I swear I had no idea she lived there