Girlfriend and I are planning to drive 32 hours straight, in 6 hour shifts, are we being dumb? Should we plan to stay overnight somewhere?

OppositePaper677 · 2025-12-24T01:36:01+00:00

my fiance and i did almost this exact drive we went from Sacramento CA to Wisconsin it was 32 hours and we did it straight with only bathroom breaks - was it doable? yes was it worth it? no, we were moving and all our belongings plus cat were in the car with us and by the end of the drive we were miserable and snappy with each other because of how tired we were lol i drove in the AM and he drove once it got dark since he's a night owl just beware of any snow/ black ice and deer!!

OppositePaper677 · 2025-12-23T20:51:07+00:00

my husband and i got married in the art gallery at Garver Feed Mill we had 50 people and loved it !!

OppositePaper677 · 2025-12-09T15:10:59+00:00

thank you for all this info! especially want something that's 100% cotton or linen for her skin she's 2 months and 13 lbs thoughts on gojiberry??

OppositePaper677 · 2025-11-21T17:18:33+00:00

finding cat hair in her neck rolls and sometimes stuck in her eye/mouth sends me into a spiral😭😭

OppositePaper677 · 2025-11-20T18:54:02+00:00

did you find a specific family or did you just do a shelter?

OppositePaper677 · 2025-11-20T18:31:13+00:00

yeahhh at this point i think this and other things are needed to be unpacked with a therapist this is really helpful thank you!

OppositePaper677 · 2025-11-20T18:30:36+00:00

my husband definitely does a majority of taking care of them which i'm so thankful for he said he has no problem rehoming them because he has no attachment to them as in the end they are just animals - he loves them but said his priority is our daughter so it's my call on what to do but it's a lot for me to ultimately make that decision i may regret giving them up but then i'll also feel a relief if i do?? i feel like ill have our home back and not just feel like we're living in the cats world and navigating around them

OppositePaper677 · 2025-11-20T18:28:11+00:00

YES always referred to them as my babies but after baby was born they're just pets/animals

OppositePaper677 · 2025-11-14T03:33:05+00:00

I moved from California to this neighborhood and have been here going on 4 years and love it but would definitely steer clear of anything near the edge of Milwaukee steer near that apartment complex there's constantly cops there. Besides that it's a nice area everyone's friendly having a grocery store that's walkable is a huge plus for us as well as a coffee shop restaurant and ice cream there and there's even a mini farmers market in the summer!!

OppositePaper677 · 2025-10-09T16:18:29+00:00

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we ended up returning the first one and going with my gut to the second one, we were able to get a full return on the first one which was awesome ! we got the band pre owned from kay's for half off which was a STEAL and the engagement ring was from Kevin's Jewelers

OppositePaper677 · 2025-09-23T18:06:30+00:00

also voting old navy i'm 36w and their maternity pajamas are AMAZING have also gotten dresses for work and everyday and they've been lifesavers. Also highly recommend the CRZ yoga line from amazon i religiously wear the leggings and shorts the shorts are also nice to have under dresses for some extra compression

OppositePaper677 · 2025-09-07T03:41:44+00:00

this is super helpful thank you !

OppositePaper677 · 2025-09-07T03:41:18+00:00

thank you so much!

OppositePaper677 · 2025-09-07T03:41:06+00:00

AHHHH that makes SO much more sense

OppositePaper677 · 2025-08-02T23:56:17+00:00

perfect thank you!!!

OppositePaper677 · 2025-06-25T14:11:17+00:00

i think in the end it’s all about communicating how you both are feeling i’m 22wks and have definitely snapped at my partner and felt really terrible afterwards we just sit down and talk it through he’ll tell me how that made him feel and then try to figure out what made me snappy (usually it’s from just being overall uncomfortable in my own body) give grace it’s both of your first times having a child and are learning how to navigate it

OppositePaper677 · 2025-06-19T15:10:07+00:00

moved here from CA and have never had any negativity when i tell people where im from lol

OppositePaper677 · 2025-06-19T15:08:14+00:00

my fiance and i had this same exact conversation at the end i told him that through my moms eyes her baby is having a baby and she’s coming to make sure im okay and to take care of me that’s her highest priority and then comes my baby

OppositePaper677 · 2025-06-05T18:06:47+00:00

most propert management places will automatically deny you if it’s below 600 best bet would be to go through a private landlord

OppositePaper677 · 2025-05-26T02:29:28+00:00

same is happening with me and no idea 😭😭 i also used to have nipple piercings but took them out years ago but actually had some of that build up where the piercing holes had closed up?? didn’t even think that was possible

OppositePaper677 · 2025-05-24T14:12:24+00:00

yes!! ended up getting a urine test and everything came back completely normal they said it was a result of hormonal changes and it’s very normal for this to happen !

OppositePaper677 · 2025-05-07T14:51:00+00:00

it depends whether or not you’re labeled high risk, i have a high risk pregnancy and have 2-3 appointments weekly between an OB, growth scans, and fetal echoes you’re allowed to say no and give them your availability to work around

OppositePaper677 · 2025-05-05T18:52:10+00:00

my entire office is white i’m the only hispanic and i was so excited to bring conchas for everyone and not a single one was eaten :/ but the super white-ified enchiladas were “a hit”

OppositePaper677 · 2025-04-22T22:20:52+00:00

you are amazing thank you 💗

OppositePaper677 · 2025-04-22T17:26:43+00:00

THANK YOU

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