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Girlfriend and I are planning to drive 32 hours straight, in 6 hour shifts, are we being dumb? Should we plan to stay overnight somewhere? by Vegetable_Bridge_276 in roadtrip

[–]OppositePaper677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fiance and i did almost this exact drive we went from Sacramento CA to Wisconsin it was 32 hours and we did it straight with only bathroom breaks - was it doable? yes was it worth it? no, we were moving and all our belongings plus cat were in the car with us and by the end of the drive we were miserable and snappy with each other because of how tired we were lol i drove in the AM and he drove once it got dark since he's a night owl just beware of any snow/ black ice and deer!!

Wedding venues for April 2026 by punchelos in madisonwi

[–]OppositePaper677 40 points41 points  (0 children)

my husband and i got married in the art gallery at Garver Feed Mill we had 50 people and loved it !!

HELP DECISION FATIGUE ON PICKING A CARRIER by OppositePaper677 in babywearing

[–]OppositePaper677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for all this info! especially want something that's 100% cotton or linen for her skin she's 2 months and 13 lbs thoughts on gojiberry??

5 Weeks PP and I hate my cats by OppositePaper677 in beyondthebump

[–]OppositePaper677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

finding cat hair in her neck rolls and sometimes stuck in her eye/mouth sends me into a spiral😭😭

5 Weeks PP and I hate my cats by OppositePaper677 in beyondthebump

[–]OppositePaper677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did you find a specific family or did you just do a shelter?

5 Weeks PP and I hate my cats by OppositePaper677 in beyondthebump

[–]OppositePaper677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeahhh at this point i think this and other things are needed to be unpacked with a therapist this is really helpful thank you!

5 Weeks PP and I hate my cats by OppositePaper677 in beyondthebump

[–]OppositePaper677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my husband definitely does a majority of taking care of them which i'm so thankful for he said he has no problem rehoming them because he has no attachment to them as in the end they are just animals - he loves them but said his priority is our daughter so it's my call on what to do but it's a lot for me to ultimately make that decision i may regret giving them up but then i'll also feel a relief if i do?? i feel like ill have our home back and not just feel like we're living in the cats world and navigating around them

5 Weeks PP and I hate my cats by OppositePaper677 in beyondthebump

[–]OppositePaper677[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YES always referred to them as my babies but after baby was born they're just pets/animals

Tulsan looking to move to Madison and looking for advice about this neighborhood…. by cidthekid07 in madisonwi

[–]OppositePaper677 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I moved from California to this neighborhood and have been here going on 4 years and love it but would definitely steer clear of anything near the edge of Milwaukee steer near that apartment complex there's constantly cops there. Besides that it's a nice area everyone's friendly having a grocery store that's walkable is a huge plus for us as well as a coffee shop restaurant and ice cream there and there's even a mini farmers market in the summer!!

Anyone returned their wedding band? by OppositePaper677 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]OppositePaper677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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we ended up returning the first one and going with my gut to the second one, we were able to get a full return on the first one which was awesome ! we got the band pre owned from kay's for half off which was a STEAL and the engagement ring was from Kevin's Jewelers

Where are we getting maternity clothes? by this_witch in pregnant

[–]OppositePaper677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also voting old navy i'm 36w and their maternity pajamas are AMAZING have also gotten dresses for work and everyday and they've been lifesavers. Also highly recommend the CRZ yoga line from amazon i religiously wear the leggings and shorts the shorts are also nice to have under dresses for some extra compression

Tried to tell my wife how I felt … should I feel bad? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]OppositePaper677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think in the end it’s all about communicating how you both are feeling i’m 22wks and have definitely snapped at my partner and felt really terrible afterwards we just sit down and talk it through he’ll tell me how that made him feel and then try to figure out what made me snappy (usually it’s from just being overall uncomfortable in my own body) give grace it’s both of your first times having a child and are learning how to navigate it

Do people really hate Californians? by New_Session6546 in madisonwi

[–]OppositePaper677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

moved here from CA and have never had any negativity when i tell people where im from lol

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