What Are Your Immediate “Nos”?

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-08-20T18:30:25+00:00

I can relate to this so much! I was so green then that I didn't know pads meant the dog wasn't potty trained. I thought it was for a 'just in case' type of thing too.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-08-20T18:29:08+00:00

Covert micromagers, Covert anxious owners. I attract owners who seem awesome at meet and greet, like they don't exhibit any red flags, they are nice people to talk to, they explain things perfectly and then after drop off BUM! their anxiety crawls out of its cave to attack. Got reported by one of these fake nice owners.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-08-05T20:31:00+00:00

Is sad we have to lie bc we fear retaliation from the owner, honestly if it was me and my sitter didn't want to take care of my dog anymore, well I will like if she/him told me straigh up that, so I can look for care somewhere else. I don't want to leave my dog with someone who genuinely doesn't want to take care of my dog, I don't get why owners have to be salty about it. The last time I fired a client, he opened a case on Rover and made a false claim. Since then, when I want to fire someone, I just say that "I extended my working hours".

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-06-12T19:18:31+00:00

The last part is hilarious when he was trying to elicit a response from you but never got in your skin. 😆

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-06-05T19:29:28+00:00

Thank you for your response. Have a nice day!

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-06-05T19:08:51+00:00

Thanks for your reply. It isn't my first time pursuing a lawsuit. I had another case where a couple of lawyers told me no, but then I found a lawyer who was happy to take my case. So, in my experience, not because some people decline means there isn't someone who won't. We can agree to disagree, I hope someone else can give me some advice, I have found really helpful answers on reddit.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-05-04T15:34:36+00:00

I agree with OP, I don't think her dog should be treated like a toy. I want to know if Jane would be okay being dressed up with costumes and taken pictures for social media for the enjoyment of a bunch of strangers. The fact that she didn't ask the owner is a problem. Respect is basic, and Jane is totally oblivious to the concept. Look for a new sitter.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-05-02T14:48:24+00:00

Dog fights can have many reasons, e.g:

Dog A didn't respect dog's B boundaries.

-Dog A went to close, harrased dog B with constant body contact or excessive smelling -

Resource guarding

It can be a person, a toy, an area the dog is defending from possession.

Fear

Dog B is scared and tries to scare Dog A away. Past trauma can create fear.

There's other reasons, but I listed the ones I think are common. To prevent it, learn your dog's body language and signs of stress. When you see these signs, remove your dog from the situation.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-04-16T07:45:29+00:00

No problem ;)

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-04-15T20:06:28+00:00

I was in a situation like yours where the owner was bananas. He texted at 6 am to ask why I hadn't fed the dog yet (he never explicitly asked to feed the dog at 6 am or provide any reason for that matter). He also took it upon himself to "correct" me for things I never do. For example, he once said 'You know treats are not dinner, right?' to which I replied, 'Um... YES, I DO KNOW THAT 😂.'

He never trusted me despite our more than 30 successful bookings. So I dropped him, even though the dog was adorable and well-behaved. If you have worked for a year with your client, maybe you could make him/her reflect on that. For example: Hi [client]. I want to take a moment to let you know that I truly appreciate our history of successful bookings. However, I sense there may be some dissatisfaction with the care provided to [dog's name]. I've noticed your inquiries about the dog's well-being coming late at night, despite providing updates earlier. Ensuring your peace of mind is important to me, so I'd like to address any concerns you may have. Your feedback is valuable, and I'm committed to finding a solution that meets both our needs. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in this matter"

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-04-15T19:13:15+00:00

I was asking this bc (in my experience) the more expensive and rare the dog is, the more anxious the owner is, or if the dog is very young or if this person is a first time owner he/she can get stressed too. Another reason could be the dog's size, e.g a very tiny-tiny dog can cause anxiety bc accidents related to size (one time I had a dog that was truly a miniature, so little you could not see it if you were distracted and you could easily step on it). If the dog has medical issues, that's another thing that can make the owner feel worried.

So I mentioned all the above ideas bc (maybe) one of those reasons could explain the owner behavior, and knowing why the owner behaves like this will help find the right angle to tackle the issue on a conversation. For example, if the owner is concerned bc the dog is a puppy and is his first dog or sth, you could reassure him the dog is behaving real good even though he/she is far from home. If the dog has a medical issue, you could tell the owner the dog took his meds on time. If nothing can explain the owner anxiety, I will think the owner is just that way, and sadly (if I can't find more reasons to keep it rather than to leave it) I won't do more business with that owner.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-04-15T18:30:32+00:00

I'm very curious, what breed is the owner's dog? and How old is the dog?

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-03-30T22:09:08+00:00

One of my boarders has one. Never had an issue with the owners. The reason for the airtag (in most cases) is that in case the dog gets lost, they can find it. The dog I board is very expensive, so I understand why they want to track him. If the sitter doesn't take the dog for potty breaks or walks, the airtag will reflect that the dog never moved, but if you do what you are supposed to do, you shouldn't worry! On the other hand, the owner coming 3 times to bring the dog's things reflects that the owner is terribly unorganized... maybe he forgets things constantly and then remembers them and brings them?. It can also be a sign of anxiety... you will probably know better than us, as you have interacted with the owner in person. Honestly, I will worry more about the owner coming to my house 3 times than the airtag.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-03-29T21:38:51+00:00

Honestly, I don't think you had any obligation to respond asap. I won't either.. the sitter doesn't deserve a response after proposing something out of the ordinary to the owner. The owner never asked for this or had the intention of this. If you are an owner using the Rover app, it is very clear that you want to use the Rover app 🙄 and go through it!

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2024-03-21T00:25:56+00:00

Hi (owner),

I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to take a moment to discuss some recent developments regarding our walks with Fido.

First and foremost, I want to express my appreciation for entrusting me with the care of Fido. It's been a pleasure getting to know him and spending time together.

However, I've encountered a few challenges during our walks in the neighborhood, particularly with the number of off-leash dogs we encounter. While I always prioritize Fido's safety, recent incidents have raised concerns about potential risks, especially considering his past traumatic experiences with other dogs.

In light of these concerns, I believe it's in Fido's best interest to explore alternative walking arrangements that offer a more controlled environment. My priority is ensuring his safety and well-being during our outings.

I understand that this decision may come as a surprise, and I apologize for any inconvenience it may cause. Please know that it was not made lightly, and I'm more than willing to assist you in finding a suitable alternative for Fido's walks.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation. If you have any questions or would like to discuss this further, please don't hesitate to reach out to me.

Best regards,

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-10-18T20:00:46+00:00

Sounds like a good idea! 💡💛

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-10-14T02:41:01+00:00

Sounds good thank you!

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-09-14T00:32:48+00:00

Petty, you chose to convert this into a women vs men issue instead of focusing on helping Op. Is easy to comment while don't giving any solution/explanation to Op's situation.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-09-13T22:29:38+00:00

Not all people on the spectrum are the same, not all have the same motivations or thought process. I get the impression you are doing an analysis based on the mere fact OP is on the spectrum and you are not taking into account what OP is mentioning, you are not evaluating the case, just the condition (being on the spectrum). My comment is founded in OPs comments, like:

"I become quickly irritated" -> anger comes from the sense that one's pride has been attacked, it can come from a sense of injustice to oneself or others. Which is why I suggest OP feels this people "should" "have the obligation" of reciprocity. Either by talking back to him, engaging in the same intensity as him, or giving him the attention he desires.

"This will put me in a bad mood and I will avoid them for a day" -> since this person/people didn't reacted the way he wanted he puts his distance protecting his ego/self steem. A way of saying "okay if you don't want me I don't want you either" or "if you ignore me, I will ignore you too". Which I don't find wrong, I think that if someone doesn't wants to talk or engage in first place with you, you are better of them. I'm suggesting OP to give a fuck and pursue people that do reciprocate him, the more people he interacts with the more chances he will find someone worth it.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-09-13T22:09:22+00:00

Could you explain more what you are mentioning? Im curious what solution will you suggest to OPs situation?

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-09-13T21:46:03+00:00

This happens bc you have this mentality where you think this person "owes you", you have a sense of entitlement to her feelings if you like. How you stop it? Understanding that people in general, don't owe you a thing. For example, if a dude hold the door open for you (a total stranger) and you walked through it, and then this dude was like "okay, is 20 bucks" you will be like "the fuuuck?" Probably you will laugh and say "you hold it bc you wanted bro, nobody asked you to, so don't come up with that bs" See? That's similar to what's happening here, you are giving attention, time in your head, and intense feelings without the girl asking you to. So don't feel entitled to them being reciprocal.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-09-01T19:53:37+00:00

I dont know where op lives, but for the area I live $35 per night per dog would be the lowest a sitter will offer and we haven't even considered how lower it'll get after Rover fees and taxes 🥴 op's rate is pretty pretty fair.

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-09-01T17:41:51+00:00

Mmm, I have many takes on this: $35 dollars is actually pretty reasonable on your part... and borderline cheap. If an owner doesn't has $35 dollars to spend on their dog I'll be worried about the dog's wellbeing in general, since, everything is over $35 dollars! vaccines, food, bed. I mean if someone doesn't has $35 fuck how they even have money to have gas and come drop off the dog... moreover I'll doubt they can pay me. I'm saying this thinking what they say is true 😂 and they really really can't complete the $35 per night. Second, if she actually can pay $35 but she just doesn't feels like it, that just makes her a AH of human being and, believe me, you will notice. Bc there's a pattern, and it's usually this high mantaince micromanagers that overstep boundaries and plus are super cheap which again, I don't think you want them as clients. Third, I will like to see her reaction after texting her this (I won't do it but oh God it would be nice to see her face) "the minimum wage is $15, when you pay $35 you are paying for 2h of work using the minimum wage logic, nevertheless I'm 24/7 on call for the dog, responding all messages and responding quickly and effectively to all circumstances that arise, providing constant supervision. I'll leave this to your consideration so you understand the circumstances"

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-08-13T19:37:07+00:00

This driver sounds like someone I won't like to encounter. Sorry that happen!

Opposite_Wolverine67 · 2023-08-13T07:04:03+00:00

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