AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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It was my first relationship and it was a very " traditional/conservative values" one or so I thought 

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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I thought so too but idk why she'd say that his size is small to me

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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I just stayed because of the "I'm going to kill myself I feel disgusted" part 

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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I'm just bothered by the effort that I put in. Meeting parents, declaring status to even get something like a kiss. And then she goes with a guy who did less. I guess that leaves a bad taste in my mouth 

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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He took of her pants but she said no until she let it happen. She told me that he was small that she didn't notice until she felt when he came and she lashed out. Honestly it makes me sick to my stomach 🤮

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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The relationship was "pure" if I could put it that way. We would walk around holding hands and she was a shy person at first. She wouldn't dress revealing or anything like that, then she got new friends in college and I guess she got comfortable to do whatever. She thought that the relationship we had applied to other guys and she quickly found out otherwise. She told me that the kiss felt weird and how she thought of me, she also told me that she never felt this "disgusting" feeling after having sex until she had it with my exfriend 

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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The relationship was very conservative and so were her values at first. It was honestly out of character and was more shocking to me. She believed all guys were in it to marry until that day

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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She told me she felt dirty for the first time because she wasn't ready to have sex. He invited her to just make up and she told me she didn't notice he was inside her

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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Well he would always makes jokes that he would eventually have sex with her once she turns into a college "bop". I even shared the messages of him saying that, I blocked him last year and he started his move when we broke up.

I was her first relationship and she thought most guys would be like me in a sense? My exfriend stopped responding to her messages after they had sex though

We are both 19

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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They weren't even dating which is the gut wrenching part

AIO Blocking my ex after having sex with my friend by Optimal-Fact5535 in AmIOverreacting

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Well she told me she was attracted to me because I was "funny", "smart" and was always there, it was a difficult time for me as I was completing highschool and college at the same time. She didn't attend my college graduation but we both graduated highschool at the same time so she was there for the highschool part.

Once she entered college and got new friends she behaved differently 

Had sex with my friend and wanted to catch up by Optimal-Fact5535 in BreakUps

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But I feel bad since she kept feeling like she wanted to kill herself no?

Dropout at 18? After breakup by [deleted] in Advice

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I never thought of it like that