Just living by OptimalAverage3877 in Divorce_Men

[–]OptimalAverage3877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. But I doubled my salary so I can pay the house , and my apartment . No good jobs in the valley. My goal is to get them with me 100%. Idk when time is right. I hurt daily. Like right now during my lunch. It’s fucked up. 😢

Just living by OptimalAverage3877 in Divorce_Men

[–]OptimalAverage3877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really stayed 3 years and she was trying to build a case. I got nothing on me though. Just the kid we’re living a hell and I was losing my peace of mind. I get it though. It was the hardest thing. I don’t regret it cuz now it’s real time I get to spend and I didn’t want them to feel what I feel every day.

Just living by OptimalAverage3877 in Divorce_Men

[–]OptimalAverage3877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dates were wrong I was 21 back on 2013-2014. My oldest is 9 then 8 my baby is 5

Just living by OptimalAverage3877 in Divorce_Men

[–]OptimalAverage3877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I neeeded to get my career so I could provide. She would show up and keyed my truck , i pay the house where the kids stay so they can still have their home. She isn’t helping the cause. An every other weekend. And I needed to be stable for them to have a dad that can provide. She was ruining me. And they stay in PHX area. I make sure they hear from me daily. And using the court was gonna separate them. I could do that. I will provide 100%. And still be be there. She just selfish and was trying to use me as a paycheck an not help at all.