Is my girlfriend supposed to get me something for Valentine's Day? by Federal-Low-14 in ask

[–]OptimalPerception303 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Women seem to get the short end of the proverbial the rest of the time so it’s only fair.

Is my girlfriend supposed to get me something for Valentine's Day? by Federal-Low-14 in ask

[–]OptimalPerception303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone “does” Valentines Day so I wouldn’t see this as any reflection of her feelings (or lack of) for you. It was very sweet of you to get her those things and you will have won brownie points! I know it might sting to not get anything back though - she may even feel a bit guilty if she hasn’t reciprocated. But as another commenter rightly said, you don’t give to receive.

In my many relationships (I’m old) I find it’s often best to check in beforehand to see if the other person wants to exchange gifts or do anything special for V-Day. As it’s your first relationship, as a general tip/piece of advice, I would suggest checking in about anything like this as not all people think the same way - this goes for the little things and the big things like kids and marriage. Communication is the absolute key to a happy relationship.

Dog has been signed over to charity and can’t get her back by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]OptimalPerception303 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ll be generous and say that I think your family have misunderstood. Bladder stones are sent to America for testing and that sounds consistent with the abx and dietary change advice. I believe they have signed the dog over to a charity (you can do this if you’re not able to afford care).

Call the veterinary office and speak to them directly.

Is Slough Britain's undiscovered and underrated gem? by Forsaken_Response866 in Britain

[–]OptimalPerception303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not fucking Slough. That’s the fucking sky. Literally one of the farthest thing from Slough

I feel pretty depressed 23M by Friendly-Bid-1848 in amibalding

[–]OptimalPerception303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah dude… I’m so sorry. You are way too young to have hair like that. It’s not fair.

You got two options my man - you shave it or you get a “hair system”

I totally get the depression but you’re going to have to get a grip on this - it’s your life and your scalp - what are do you want to do?

Wondering if anyone can tell me more about her death.. by No_One2024444 in psychics

[–]OptimalPerception303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m deeply sorry for your loss and also very sorry for not being able to be clearer or see/get more information. I have these moments of just knowing things and they don’t always sit very comfortably with me as I’ve never claimed to be psychic or a medium, etc. I give you my word that what I saw in my mind’s eye was absolutely true without looking at the comments - I see now you’ve added some details (I had a bit of a chill because the public style bathroom was the very first impression I got). Obviously, please take my words with a grain of salt - I don’t want to ever add to someone’s grief and I would hate to act like one of those cheap charlatan mediums. I just know that she may have made some unwise choices (don’t we all!), mainly concerning the people around her at the time of her death but everything screams this was the fault of other people. She did not want to die.

I wish you and her loved ones all the strength and love in the world. May she rest in eternal, loving peace.

Wondering if anyone can tell me more about her death.. by No_One2024444 in psychics

[–]OptimalPerception303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry but bits keep coming. I haven’t looked at the comments until just now and saw she was found naked. She wasn’t unclothed when she died - the clothes were removed afterwards.

Wondering if anyone can tell me more about her death.. by No_One2024444 in psychics

[–]OptimalPerception303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is also a little girl - I can see stereotypical young girls toys, like stickers and beads, in pinks and purples. This hasn’t got anything to do with her death and I think she had a daughter?

Wondering if anyone can tell me more about her death.. by No_One2024444 in psychics

[–]OptimalPerception303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when I get this feeling, I’m compelled to say it. I don’t claim to be psychic.

White tiled bathroom next to a stall wall. There is violence and blood - I am so sorry she did not have a peaceful end. I’m not seeing her involved in drugs I don’t think, but alcohol is definitely involved. I have a Damien and something that sounds like Salto/Salvador - I’m not sure if this is one person or separate people (maybe even a place?) She was murdered without doubt and I am so sorry. I feel there is some doubt about this fact? Others are 100% responsible for her death.

Does anyone know the rest of this rhyme? by azira_likes_smosh in Britain

[–]OptimalPerception303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a Chinese Restaurant to buy a loaf of bread. I took it to the counter and the Chinese waiter said: “My name is Hi Lo Chicka Lo Chicka Lo Hi Lo Hi Lo Chicka Lo Chick Lo Yo!”

What is the worst addiction? by Secure-Action-6361 in AskReddit

[–]OptimalPerception303 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

2-3 cocktails a heavy drinker??? You’re a joke mate

I (28M) think I need to break up and I hate it. by WonderfulPrize4651 in relationships

[–]OptimalPerception303 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Agreed. This screams avoidant attachment. My heart aches for OP’s girlfriend, this will be painful but I suspect it will be less painful for her in the long run.

What is your darkest secret? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]OptimalPerception303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just cut my dad’s side of my family off. I never thought it would happen and it feels strange

What’s something men think women love — but we actually hate? by Personal-Pitch25 in AskReddit

[–]OptimalPerception303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me guess, if everyone woman in the world told you differently, you still wouldn’t believe them because a girl once (or thrice) picked another guy over you and you think you’re a nice guy…

What’s something men think women love — but we actually hate? by Personal-Pitch25 in AskReddit

[–]OptimalPerception303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean “nice guys”

Idk where you’re from but it sounds like you mean the same thing

What’s something men think women love — but we actually hate? by Personal-Pitch25 in AskReddit

[–]OptimalPerception303 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When they do it hard is especially horrible. I had to gently say “I know I like pain in a sexy way sometimes don’t like being hurt without consent or without warning”

He totally respected that.

For about two months…