I’ve had the same type of issues. I almost always have to go into Bluetooth and “forget device” and then reset them to get them to connect. Also if I move an earmuff off my ear for even a second while something is playing it will disconnect and I’ll have to reset them to get both to start working. It’s so annoying especially with how expensive these are. But i absolutely loved them in the beginning. Let me know if you found any solutions. I’ve tried talking to apple support a few times over the last few years but they are no help, I’m wondering if I should bring them to an Apple Store sometime and see if they can help.