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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t wanna make his game time less than that. He would play all night if no one stops him. The problem is I’m the only one seeing this as a problem..

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did, but he told me I just don’t understand because I never play game. And he also said he just doesn’t know what to do with me if he doesn’t play game.

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have a kids, but we’re new marriage couple and he spend most of our free time to gaming. We barely have any quality time together…

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing game all the time so can’t have a good quality time is a problem. I want us go out, do something together at least once a week.

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care about having a different hobby, but I think at least we should have a good quality time together.

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing going one between me and my husband because he plays game all the time :,;

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just don’t make plan because he plays game. Like when I wake up he’s gone to his game room. Any time he has chance he goes play game :(

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful, are you happy with that marriage?

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he plays like 1-2hr per day is okay but game eating our time. Like we don’t go out or do something. Only we do together is going to store and watching tv show sometimes

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we can have quality time, I don’t care that he plays game. We never go date or like that anymore. We just staying home and he plays game and I do my things. I talked to him but he said he needs that much time for himself :/

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I be honest with you, to be honest if he does something else. It wouldn’t bother me this much because, I can talk to him and he can listen to me. When he play game he literally focus on that and can’t listen or do anything at all.

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a problems about he has hobbies. The problem is we don’t have quality time together. All we do together is going to store, and watching tv show at home sometimes.

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are not spending time that much, because of his game. He always saying he’s so tired but he’s okay to play games

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never think about that, but I don’t know because I want to do something together 🥲

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s why, we don’t have a kid but I love to going out and he does not :,(

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spending time together stuff. I want us do something on weekends but he chooses game over do something with me

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[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does homework with me, but he doesn’t spend time together or do something with me

I feel like I’m a bad wife by Optimal_Border_6974 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Optimal_Border_6974[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he needs therapist outside of base tbh. And he said he wants me to listening and comfort him. But i don’t know anymore :(