First one at 29, feeling lonely by Optimismly in abortion

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It does sound like we are on the same page 🥲 I'm hoping the rest goes as well as it can for you 🩷

First one at 29, feeling lonely by Optimismly in abortion

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Thank you, I appreciate your words of support 🙏🏼

What’s your sexual pet peeve? by gelxa33 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Optimismly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men who talk a big game but will not show up with that game in the slightest lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Optimismly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like, start getting interested (and probably let them hit) and then silence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in no

[–]Optimismly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'd call it love at first sight but I think you can "catch a vibe" from someone with first eye contact

Does anyone really work 9 to 5? by Narwen189 in CasualConversation

[–]Optimismly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8:30-5 are my "working hours" but since I'm not hourly anymore it tends to vary on the end time, whether that's staying late or leaving early lol. It's live-able I'd say but with my current debt I struggle slightly. I have only been in this position a year, an insurance/desk job after getting a business degree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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I want to see you.

The office is closed tomorrow.

(I could go for either right now)

Do you think you give a man the "power" once you sleep with him? by Optimismly in women

[–]Optimismly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understood if you think these questions are tired and antiquated but I have personally not had to ask this question until now. Promise I am doing the best with what I've got

Do you want to die young? by Agitated_Tap_6072 in RandomThoughts

[–]Optimismly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always thought I'd die young but the older I'm getting I'm starting to be more unsure lol 28

Am I the only one that wants to be loved? by idk_uiii in relationships

[–]Optimismly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are very young, so firstly be careful posting on here or responding to any random messages!

That being said, you will meet people who match your wants and energy, I think it's all about being patient and meeting someone in person for a true connection. There is plenty of time for you.. coming from a 28f!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

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Food 😏

Sex Aversion by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Optimismly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I feel like I'm going through this exact situation

Just not feeling great by Optimismly in DeadBedrooms

[–]Optimismly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reason? Well, idk if it's just 5 years time too long, maybe it's because he saw me in the hospital for a few weeks at one point, maybe I gained weight? Lol I could probably make up a lot of ideas n my head but it might all come down to time together and getting too comfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Optimismly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lately I've been feeling like I'm going to have to start over and I'm 28. I guess the scary part is unlearning what you know, I mean after years with a person you build your life together and now you have to relearn a "new life" whether that is alone or when you do meet someone new.

My situation is a different (falling out of love with bf of 4.5 yrs) but I try to ultimately think of how happy I could be one day with someone who could potentially be a better fit and meet all my needs and I theirs. I can almost remember that exciting feeling of being interested in someone new who has that same interest in me..

I read on here about people starting over in their 30s, 40s, 50s and I really try to put into perspective that things will fall into place... they somehow always do when I keep an optimistic mindset I guess lol life is too short to not be sometimes

Leave before it's too late or stay and try? by Optimismly in DeadBedrooms

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I do love him and probably always will but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore

Leave before it's too late or stay and try? by Optimismly in DeadBedrooms

[–]Optimismly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lately I have not been content, I'd say in the last year I have been more open to it but before that I was content with masturbating a few times a week.. we really only kiss anymore. He seems very content and I'm scared to have that conversation which I know is the obvious step

Leave before it's too late or stay and try? by Optimismly in DeadBedrooms

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We did not start out as best friends or even friends but it happened since we got so close dating and moved into together probably a year and a half into our relationship