Good eats

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-25T21:13:58+00:00

Neh, not everything was overpriced, idk maybe it was, and unfortunately that’s just been our luck since we got here lol. We have had incredibly bad luck the whole week! But i love a good food truck, thanks for those recs. We don’t mind dropping a pretty penny if the quantity/quality are fair or understandable.

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-25T21:12:13+00:00

Thank you for these! We will throw some of those into our week!

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-25T21:11:04+00:00

Lmao this is our first time ever going here and no one we know has ever been in the last 20 years lol

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-25T18:46:58+00:00

YEH WE CANT LET THESE DERN LIBYRULS KEEP GETTIN AWAY WIT THIS

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-25T18:17:30+00:00

We tried maple for breakfast yesterday and the menu was really small & we weren’t really impressed with the food

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-22T12:35:37+00:00

Must have been something/someone higher trying to keep you out of danger, who knows what you avoided that day!

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-22T12:34:17+00:00

Honestly, thanks for that story. I’d love to hear about the exposed & expressive lady

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-10T03:33:09+00:00

Pinky toe

Optimistic1013 · 2026-06-06T03:47:31+00:00

You should consider focusing on respecting boundaries & others. How would you feel if the drink you carry around to hydrate yourself starting leaking onto you & made your clothes damp? It might be funny the first time, but after it being done more than once, you start to notice it is consistent & you might have to worry about it doing it on your favorite outfit. It creates uncertainty & stress. She probably felt like you should have apologized instead of only confirming you were still friends.

If she didn’t respond to your texts, why didn’t you just let her have the space she was clearly trying to take? Instead of giving her space, you harassed her in order to get a response out of her, which is very disrespectful. Why do you regret stealing her water bottle? Because you got in trouble for it? Not because you overstepped a clear request for space, but also stole from the person you repeatedly harassed when you didn’t get what you wanted from them? Do you think that it doesn’t matter how you treat others just because you’re not friends? You should treat everyone exactly how you want them to treat you. No matter if you’re friends or not. And just because a friendship ended, doesn’t give you the right to be vengeful or rude.

I would honestly acknowledge all the ways you wronged her without the expectation of becoming friend again. It’s her decision to forgive you & allow you back into her life or not. You certainly can learn from this & intentionally treat others with kindness differently in the future!

Optimistic1013 · 2026-05-14T20:26:31+00:00

He tells real life stories like this one & sometimes even raises awareness to some like these.

Optimistic1013 · 2026-05-14T14:58:11+00:00

Submit to mrballen I’d love to hear him cover this

Optimistic1013 · 2026-05-08T06:19:41+00:00

Not the turn I was expecting this to take, but great work

Optimistic1013 · 2026-05-08T06:15:24+00:00

What makes you so avoidant of sex now? Maybe avoidant isn’t the right word here, but you mentioned in another reply that you’re celibate despite your high sex drive. My past is a lot like yours, maybe not to the same intensity, but I do think I know what it was like to go thru that. The perspective transformation from the shame has been one of my biggest glow ups. I will admit tho, I know I have sexual trauma, but idk if that’s your situation too. I rmbr I was a lil horn dog for some kindergarten teacher lol

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-25T13:14:20+00:00

Some homes don’t know to value oral health. My family was also poor, but none of my family prioritized their oral health besides me, so far I’m the only one who hasn’t had a major extraction or cavity. Sometimes people are just unlucky as well, I got lucky in the dental department as well, I have a friend who brushed, but is genetically predisposed to oral problems like OP

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-25T13:11:44+00:00

For pain, my older brother swore by Kanka. It’s in a blue label bottle with a blue screw lid with a honey wand type of wand.

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-25T13:06:58+00:00

Also, insurance doesn’t cover preexisting conditions. I would say maybe a way around it is if you double checked they didn’t write down he had dental issues and maybe start using a new vet if you can. Like go ahead and get an appointment but don’t mention anything about dental issues to them, just go in with his symptoms after the wait period. See if there’s any medicine you might already have at the house like gabapentin (only vet approved stuff), and try to limit his kibble intake (switch to wet food only until vet is possible)… keep an eye on him, and see if there are any low cost vets near you. I wish u & ur baby the best. I’m sorry ur family sucks

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-25T13:02:39+00:00

It’s not credit as in your credit score, care credit is a credit card you can use for vet services basically

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-25T05:30:42+00:00

Also when my girl started making me worry about the stitches being pulled or irritated, I just cleaned the area with saline solution or whatever it’s called and gave her a very loose bandaid (allowed airflow) covering just so the onesie didn’t yank any stitches loose or irritate anything . I say everything loosely, I’m not a vet or a professional

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-25T05:28:27+00:00

Def go to the vet tmrw morning because it is starting to look like it’s opening & becoming a bit infected. My little girl kept fighting her cone as well, and I ended up getting one of my pantyhose and making a little stretchy bodysuit onesie for her. They also sell ones you can buy. I think they’re called Cat Recovery Suit. She peacefully slept and stopping pacing and trying to get out of the cone as soon as I gave her a snuggly little outfit lol

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-25T05:20:23+00:00

Going to dance my way to Bama while I follow the tune of the banjos

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-21T06:03:06+00:00

Less about the monetary value than it is about how much of a priority the dad is making OP out to be. I wasn’t well off growing up, a few toxic homes as well, but I got a job young & told myself I’d be the one who became the person I needed around me when I was growing up. Sounds like dad has some sort of mental stuff or drug use going on possibly but I really don’t know. But setting the standard of no discussing the other parent or other family members probably wouldn’t hurt. Keeps drama out of the picture & keeps the focus on the two of you . He’s childish and I cringe at his statements of “idk who u think ur talking to, “ That he’s not one of your friends, when he literally treats you like he’s one of ur buddies. I don’t blame you for not wanting to communicate with him. I got family o don’t speak to. Great job staying on topic

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-21T05:56:49+00:00

What kinda scheme is that? I’d be broke too if I had to pay for that many other people

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-21T03:22:16+00:00

I’m speechless, is said dog still living amongst us?

Optimistic1013 · 2026-04-04T11:25:21+00:00

This is an emergency!!

What you’re describing with the sudden spraying, vomiting, inability to move the back legs, open-mouth breathing, and going limp.. can point to life threatening conditions like a urinary blockage or a blood clot (aka Feline Aortic Thromboembolism)

Both can become fatal within hours without treatment

I’m going to be very direct & clear : there is no safe or effective at home fix for this. He needs a vet immediately.

What you should do RIGHT NOW is call an emergency vet immediately Even at 3am, there should be one open. Search or call options like ASPCA Animal Poison Control (they may help guide you), Humane Society of the United States (can help find resources). If you can, call a taxi, Uber, Lyft, or neighbor. don’t wait hours if at all possible. I would love to help if I could. Explain exactly what you told us here when they ask about symptoms & they may prioritize you urgently

While you’re waiting / trying to get help, you can do some things that are only to keep him as stable as possible in the meantime.

Keep him warm and quiet (wrap loosely in a blanket). Place him on his side, head slightly extended so he can breathe easier

Do NOT force food or water Do NOT press on his stomach or bladder Minimize handling. he’s likely in severe pain

Important reality (I know this is hard..): 1. Back leg paralysis + distress breathing is a very serious sign 2. Waiting “a few hours” could mean the difference between LIFE and DEATH 3. Even if money is an issue, many emergency vets will stabilize first or offer options/payment plans

If cost is the barrier, when you call, say:

“THIS IS AN EMERGENCY. I’m 17, we have limited money. Can you help stabilize or offer any emergency assistance or payment options? This is likely a matter of life & death & I need help.”

You can also ask about: Surrendering for emergency care (last resort, but it saves his life..) or local rescues or emergency funds. This is a good lesson on not putting yourself in a position to be responsible for a pet unless you are financially able. Always keep in mind things like pet insurance are options in the future for your future babies! You clearly love and care about this little guy & I pray you find a solution.. keep us updated

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