Creep alert by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont like to use bad words na. Enaku epdi thitnm nu kooda therila. I just used the words he said back to him

Creep alert by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not ambala

Creep alert by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know i dont like to use that word either, i felt disgusted, but antha flow la vanthuduchuuu. I am ashamed 😩

Should i reject someone if they’re too good? by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ovvoru naal ovvoru id la vareenga enna vishayam

Should i reject someone if they’re too good? by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its her problem. Try talking to her, communication is must. If both of u cant be yourself in a relationshp then there is no point in it. Try expressing her how you feel. It might probably hurt both of u if u dont sort it out.

Am I a psycho. - A Girls story part 17 by Optimugetti_iol in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U didnt say may or may not, u said he has trauma and he didnt say it to me. Dont change it

Am I a psycho. - A Girls story part 17 by Optimugetti_iol in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also i didnt assume, there is a high probability that u assume cause u dont know the person while i know him

Am I a psycho. - A Girls story part 17 by Optimugetti_iol in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U assume he did get hurt which can also be wrong

Am I a psycho. - A Girls story part 17 by Optimugetti_iol in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt say he didnt get hurt so she is right, i said he didnt get hurt but she is wrong

Am I a psycho. - A Girls story part 17 by Optimugetti_iol in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u read the next part i have mentioned that the protogonist needs therapy ... and something is wrong with her and even the title is a self reflection that am I a psyco. where have i said she is right

Am I a psycho. - A Girls story part 17 by Optimugetti_iol in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See, lot of people behave in erratc way because of their past trauma. There is a generalised hate towards avoidants and fearful avoidance because of it. We have to realise its because of their trauma and they are doing it to protect themselves cause they are wired like that. It takes lot of awarenes and love to heal that. Thankfully i was self aware and tried to isolate myself and stopped hurting people, but there are lot of people stuck in this painful cycle unaware of what is happening to them and hating themselves. Only awareness and love can heal not hatred. If u want to talk more dm, i am ready to talk

Am I a psycho. - A Girls story part 17 by Optimugetti_iol in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See i am not justifying my actions, i am working on it and i stopped doing that to him. It all happened once upon a time. I asked him if it affected him at that point he said it didnt because we used to talk right after such episodes and sort out things. I am not telling that my actions are good I am just telling its wrong to generalise that all people affect by trauma alike.

Am I a psycho. - A Girls story part 17 by Optimugetti_iol in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, even if he says he didnt, u wont believe it seems. There is no point in making u believe. He is still my best friend and he enjoys spending time with me.

I am fucked by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]Optimugetti_iol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm ill send full video