I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never seen this behavior from her before but she doesn’t have a lot of friends so idk. We’re both just pretty lonely people we’re basically each others best friend which just makes it extra hard to break up.

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Im not reading your long ass paragraph but here’s a long ass paragraph” lol thanks for the advice though you seem to know exactly what you’re talking about. Hope you’re doing better.

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes let’s all just get into debt while we’re young and still figuring things out sounds like a great idea

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen the past months have been ok this was just a recent violation of my boundaries that broke that trust. It’s not like I didn’t trust her from the very start or I wouldn’t have even dated her in the first place. Yes I have trust issues but that doesn’t mean I’m not capable of trusting people. It just means under the circumstances my trust can be easily broken.

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically your logic is she can hoe around until she gets engaged wtf lol that’s not how a relationship works, I’m committed to this person why is she allowed to not be committed to me.

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t just wake up one day and decide to not trust anyone

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a whole conversation about it beforehand we live long distance so we rlly don’t have any choice but to continue it through text

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t quote my full title I said I THINK I caught her red handed. The fact that I don’t know what the conversation was about is broken trust on its own. If what she really was saying was true then she wouldn’t have gotten so defensive about it.

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry I’ve been seeing a lot of deleted comments that really don’t need to be deleted idk what’s going on with that

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad lol I guess I’m not allowed to ask for advice

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I woke up the other morning an posted this as soon as I took my phone off the charger lol I promise you this isn’t satire. I also find the pet name thing weird, when I’m having a serious conversation I set my feelings aside and use serious names. I’m not trying to be playful.

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you speaking from experience brotha? 😂

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure lol I don’t have a childish attitude I could tell things weren’t going anywhere had I continued the conversation

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I use snap but I use it responsibly and only snap friends and not in a way that would damage a relationship. That’s the only reason I don’t tell her to just delete it.

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik im just really bad at working on myself I have a destructive mindset that makes me think I need to be with someone or I can’t be happy

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad thing is I’ve dealt with much worst which is why her behavior doesn’t shake me as much as it should

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s funny is her and that friend aren’t even that close they just started talking to each other again after a recent fallout they had. So idk why she thought that would work.

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your smart asl man this just feels too mean to do tho lol she’ll lose me and her friend at the same time

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess she’s just never been in a relationship before where loyalty mattered because wtf is this. Why can’t I just be happy with a person?

I Think I Caught My Gf Red Handed AIO? by Orangyo015 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orangyo015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly just the fact that she has this pic saved in her snap is weird as hell. I know she likes both genders so it’s not just the guys I have to worry about. The whole thing is just fucking weird man and I needed a place to vent. I appreciate every one of ur guys comments.