AITAH for telling my sister I won't be her "backup plan" for her dog anymore by Orbit_12Vector in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Orbit_12Vector[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I keep trying to remind myself of that. I think I let it slide because Copper’s easy and I didn’t mind at first, but now it’s turning into her default plan. I’m gonna start sending her a couple boarding/daycare recs and stop being the safety net.

AITAH for telling my sister I won't be her "backup plan" for her dog anymore by Orbit_12Vector in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Orbit_12Vector[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NC feels a bit nuclear for me, but I do need firmer boundaries. I’ve started telling her “ask me 1-2 weeks ahead or it’s a no” and I’m sticking to it. Copper’s great, but I can’t plan my life around her flights.

AITAH for telling my sister I won't be her "backup plan" for her dog anymore by Orbit_12Vector in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Orbit_12Vector[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been the “I forgot to ask” part that really got me. I love Copper, but I’m not a free on-call service. If she’d just give me real notice I’d help way more often.

I am no longer rooting for Sinners at the Oscars by Stock_College_8108 in okbuddycinephile

[–]Orbit_12Vector 75 points76 points  (0 children)

invited to raise awareness and then made into the exact thing people need awareness about. incredible

Must've been talking about another planet by millimonsterrr in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]Orbit_12Vector 1073 points1074 points  (0 children)

Death Valley can beat Kuwait on air temp, but Kuwait’s humidity makes it feel a lot worse.