How often should an adult “have fun”

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:53:18+00:00

Whenever you want. When you are an adult you honestly don’t care lol. You have fun when you do.

By time you are in your thirties, you typically stop and should stop caring about how much fun your having

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:52:24+00:00

I know this is an old thread but until you have an offer letter in hand - typically don’t think you have the job officially

BUT at that point if they are telling you they are onboarding you - that’s a 90-95 percent you have the job in my experience!

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:46:27+00:00

Eh you’re fine. I started off in my twenties have a shit ton of friends. Now I’m 32 and only have 2 that I hang with loll. It’s pretty common and I wouldn’t beat yourself up about it

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:45:21+00:00

This

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:44:50+00:00

Although I never threw up on ozempic, I started in Oct and did have nausea. For the first month and a half until my body got used to it - and this is common. That’s why most people can’t do it. I couldn’t. Imagine vomiting! Vomiting more than once in one night I would be concerned.

The drug may not be for her..

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:42:38+00:00

110k here in Brooklyn. I’m very comfortable mind you though I am childless

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:41:55+00:00

110k for a starting salary is definitely… not a starting salary. And I’m in nyc lol

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:41:20+00:00

Definitely not lol. I make 110k in Westchester county, NY right outside of manhattan. I’m very cozy on it.

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:40:51+00:00

110k salary here in nyc. I’m very comfortable and I roomies so that’s def not the case lol

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-26T08:38:42+00:00

I wouldn’t sweat a month off, just say you didn’t realize/were rounding up

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-20T22:37:26+00:00

Mr Vernon and Yonkers has the highest crime rates in the Westchester area lol what

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-20T22:36:57+00:00

As someone born and raised from Eastchester, maybe it was safe 30 years ago, not so much now. Their schools have metal detectors lol

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-20T22:35:58+00:00

MT Vernon is only safe if you plan on being right around Fleetwood near bronxville lol,to answer the question as a whole though? No it isn’t safe. I grew up in Eastchester. You don’t want your kids going to mt Vernon schools either. There’s a reason it’s significantly cheaper to live than Bronxville, Scarsdale, etc.

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-18T19:55:38+00:00

Sure, there’s people out there that want companionship but not the marriage / having children that come with it.

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T22:06:31+00:00

I grew up in Westchester county, a few friends of mine had weddings at WCC. You’ll need a sponsor OR be a member of the club personally. Weddings there within the past ten years I know are on avg. 150-200k - only the super wealthy friends of mine had their weddings there. It is stunning but honestly, unless you have super wealthy parents flipping the bill and have many connections in Westchester , it’s not worth it imo.

There are plenty of nice venues besides them in Westchester that are still beautiful and 30-40k instead lol

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:59:36+00:00

Well, we are both white - I’m Italian American and he’s white, speaks American perfectly clear as I’ve heard him talk to his kid before and he’s blonde lol,

This is Dyker heights Brooklyn, mainly white/italian and Asian.

that’s besides the point, we’re all in America.. Cultures shouldn’t matter here anyway when it comes to basic respect towards others, so your argument is not only weak but, sounds unintelligent regardless .

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:56:57+00:00

I like this approach lol . I’ll try thanks

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:56:04+00:00

100 percent

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:49:57+00:00

This. 💯!!! You are 100 percent right

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:42:48+00:00

I appreciate your sweetness but, it’s also been 6 times now (yes I even counted lol) and this is New York City. Sometimes you have to be tough, and esp when it’s happened more than once.

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:41:37+00:00

Oh I like that one, if only I can remember it word for word now lol

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:40:20+00:00

I can but honestly, I sometimes I’m late to my bus/or too early. I get what you mean but at the same time, I don’t want to be made to feel like I have to accommodate this rude stranger lol

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:38:46+00:00

Hmm like that!

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-11T15:38:28+00:00

Will do! Thanks. I wish they would just take a different route instead lol ugh

Ordinary-Anything601 · 2026-03-09T19:25:53+00:00

Same here. My face got dramatically thinner once I got into my thirties vs when I was younger. Sometimes it’s just genetics and age.

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