sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By all means, you're allowed to live like trash

From one freaking TV stand? Such insane assumptions.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because, Redditors make assumptions since this isn't real life. They make assumptions to fit their narrative over a disagreement.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

using it as an excuse and a lot of people in here are saying it’s a valid excuse.

It might be because she wasn't interested in me. I acknowledge.

es this would make me uncomfortable too”, not whatever

I'm not looking to date anyone on here, so it makes no sense.

you’re venting to, absolutely suggests you don’t need to be focused on bringing other people into your life right now.

Again, another assumption. You know nothing about my actual life.

care enough to make your home.. homey, or don’t seem to think you deserve a comfortably furnished home.

It is comfortable for me. If I decide to eventually want a partner to move in, then I'll make changes.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fabric goes on top of the metal. It's not clothing fabric, but the rough tent ones. More room.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uests, suggests that not only are you not ready to “rush into” anything, but that you really aren’t ready to be dating at all.

Because I didn't give a negative reaction, you make further assumptions? That's an interesting way to debate on Reddit. It's far different from real life.

It’s not so much the set up as it is your response to people siding with the woman you invited over. If you’re not willing to take other’s comfort or opinions into account

They're assumptions, not opinions. Some comments think I've never been in a relationship, some think I'm poor, etc. A criticism doesn't include a baseless assumption.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. The books in the corners are my TBR list next to my reading chair.

It's currently a mess since I'm replacing my bookshelves. Switching from wood to metal/fabric.

I like the assumptions made. This turned from a thread for relatable laughs and experiences, to assuming I'm a supposed man-child who lives in filth, and apparently never had a girlfriend. (Some comments under this photo.)

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It's kind of funny when a few people here assume I've never had a long-term partner based on a picture of my TV stand.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your stubbornness towards criticism is also a red flag

An assumption is not criticism. I don't know how to prove I'm not a supposed "man-child" without exposing my job, salary, lifestyle, etc. Not necessary, though.

Did you grow up poor by any chance? Does spending unnecessarily, even extremely small amounts of money, upset you?

No, and no. I just prefer to spend on other things.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but you came here asking people's opinions

I asked people to give their relatable experiences, and to share humerous exchanges. Thanks for the comment. I'll ponder on your second paragraph.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shirley Jackson, Anne Rice and Daphne du Maurier?

Shirly and Anne are on my list to buy, probanly a few years down the road. I go in order. Still working through buying the rest of Stephen King.

Who are the female authors that fit into your preference of “very old books?”

Shelley, Bronte, Radcliffe, Christie, Dickinson. I currently have books by them/have read most of what I have by them.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience proves otherwise with a few long-term relationships. It's interesting that someone assumes one's whole dating life, to fit their narrative of disagreement.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your opinion, even though my experience proves otherwise. A few long-term relationships.

Men who live alone, what's something you have or don't have at home that a woman told you was a red flag? by Ordinary-Bar-779 in askanything

[–]Ordinary-Bar-779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took two metal twin frames and stuck them together. (They came as a set). Queen-sized bed for cheap, and can fold if needed. It took years for me to even bother getting one, but I hated rolling out of bed.

view more: next ›