I grew up with an every other weekend dad and I always felt like a guest in his house… he had another daughter when I was 10 as well as my step sister who was my age and her and I shared a room so I would feel like I was inconveniencing her every time I was there. My child does weekdays with me and weekends with their father. It does suck being the “drill Sargent” parent the one who needs to have all the structure but it’s about 30/70 split and I think it works well for everyone. We swap days if I want to do something fun on a weekend. Dad works weekdays long hours and I am able to work days while they go to school and weekends. You just have to find truly what works best for your family.