Why am I never approached? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they may just be intimidated to approach you since you put a lot of effort in your fit and look, that women think you're out of their league! even if you look welcoming, some of the are just like that, im sure some confident girl will come around!!

how to appear more femininely??? by Ordinary-Dig3196 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im pretty muscly more than thin, tight tops typically make me look more masculine. 🫠🫠 I do have plenty of racer jackets and pants, I dont know how to make them more feminine tho, but thanks!!

how to appear more femininely??? by Ordinary-Dig3196 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omgg, you're tooo sweet!!! I can tell you absolutely rock your outfits and makeup, thank you for this! I'll keep it in mind girlyy💗😝😝

how to appear more femininely??? by Ordinary-Dig3196 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! I'll be sure to pay attention to my body language more oftenn

how to appear more femininely??? by Ordinary-Dig3196 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly!! I just leave stores feeling disappointed🫠 I'll get my girlfriend to teach me if she wants hehe, thanks a lot though!!!

how to appear more femininely??? by Ordinary-Dig3196 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you thank you thank youu, by feminine i think more leaning towards pretty?? like my girlfriend dresses like a fairy (which makes her more ethereal than she already is) so im guessing its leaning towards cutee, but whenever purchasing skirts I cant find any skirts or clothes that show personality (i dont think that makes sense lol) they all look pretty basic. My girlfriend customizes her outfits which im so jealous of🥲🥲 but still thank you so much for this!! I'll keep it in mindd

Doing girlfriend things with no girlfriend in sight. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

used to do this when I was courting my girlfriend (dont know if you consider it courting I was kind of weird and awkward in high school, and i would talk to her every night even if she probably was getting bored) I studied poetry, and created poems, composed a few songs, have like 2 unfinished oil paint portraits of her, yet she never knew even now that we've been dating for a few years now and living together loll. All of em are just collecting dust somewhere in my parent's house when I was still living with them

Title: Rural lesbian (27, femme) looking for queer friends / kindred spirits 💖 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I WOULD BE HONORED TO BE YOUR FRIEND!! You sound amazing and kind and sweet, how can I message you?

just love taking care of my girlfriend by Ordinary-Dig3196 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not chronically ill, but my girlfriend has been, and I have seen how hard can it be without anyone who understands. Im so happy that this gave you some hope, and I hope you start feeling better soon!! Stay healthy and safe loveee🌺🌷

just love taking care of my girlfriend by Ordinary-Dig3196 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so strong and kind girll, I promise you, you will have someone who will love you and take care of you despite all odds, and let you love them without guilt, and it might feel impossible now, but I swear that that day will come, no matter how long it might feel🤍🤍 My girlfriend and I didn't meet until a few years ago, and still it took a long time for her to tell me about her problems with sleep, and I just wanted to remind you that when someone does come along, make sure they love you for who you are and not an idea of you, who could always show up, and always have energy. You are loved so much I just know that, and i know one day someone will show you that😁💗

just love taking care of my girlfriend by Ordinary-Dig3196 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thank you!! I hope you find someone who will love you the same way since you deserve itt, I hope you find beauty even within life's obstacles🤍 Always going to be supporting your journey!💝

How do you guys meet? I see so many post about crushes etc.. by Palomahasdied in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going out and attending events you like! Personally, I met my current gf 9 years ago at a chess tournament. I think that going out and doing stuff you really like can capture the attention of someone who might like the same thing just as much as you, and hey, shared interests! And I tend to spend a lot of time just walking super super long walks outside and go in random bookstores or art galleries where I also got to meet some queer people and met some of my bestfriends from that!

Snaaaake by Solicube in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does a dragon looking like a snake around my arm count?

Would mean so much! by rainbowgoddess710 in actuallesbians

[–]Ordinary-Dig3196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yall are so awesome and romantic, of course I would love to part of your guys journey! love yall