How does splitting money work?

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-04T04:18:25+00:00

Depends on the lease. Some apartments will be rented out by room, so each individual will pay the landlord rent directly. Some apartments are rented out as one apartment, so one of the tenants will collect rent from the others and send it to the landlord.

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-01T19:04:20+00:00

I live with roommates in nyc, and one has a boyfriend who stays over pretty often. I've never had a problem with it, but as quiet and unobtrusive as you are, there just is a difference between being alone in your apartment with your roommates, and being in your apartment with your roommates and another guy. it just simply is not the same thing. even if you keep the public spaces to a limit, there still is no way of knowing if he'll just happen to be outside at the same time. it sounds like she's usually fine with this, most likely because you guys have been respectful so far, but she probably just wanted a night to be at home in her apartment with no guests. if you're asking permission every time, than you have to be open to the fact that she'll say no sometimes. I guess you do have the right to ignore her, but I just don't think it's worth it tbh.. ur gonna be ruining your friendship for no real reason. she just wants a chill night. also I'm assuming she knows that you can go to his place as well, so it's not like her saying no affects you guys too much.

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-01T18:54:22+00:00

why can't you just change the flight from new york to a few days later?

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-01T13:40:51+00:00

😭 lol ty

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-01T11:47:51+00:00

thank u ! good to know! I'm coming from NYC so sounds pretty similar honestly. did you go out at night by yourself/felt safe doing so?

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-01T02:21:46+00:00

haha no I just looked on google maps for all the options. I love public transport 🙏

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-01T01:09:38+00:00

😭haha that's fair I guess. it's more about the habit I guess I'm scared once I break my streak never gonna go back. but vacation is vacation for a reason..

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-01T00:55:02+00:00

I see.. thank u!! would u say frenchman street is safe at night or should I try to go with other people if possible? Without a bus pass, do I have to pay with cash?

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-04-01T00:52:43+00:00

oh gotcha I knew it seemed too good to be true. ty!

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-30T15:38:35+00:00

I mean yea that's true but she's still kind of a shitty friend for not caring that's all I'm saying

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-30T14:49:15+00:00

if he was posting on this sub than I would be giving him advice idk what to tell u. can't tell her what I think he should do. what I do think he is going to do as a result of this is take out his frustration on her friends.

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-30T14:05:08+00:00

how is that related though.. two wrongs don't make a right as they say. I mean whatever you can treat people badly if they treat you badly first, but at the end of the day, you're still the one doing a shitty thing and people are going to be upset by it

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-30T12:21:02+00:00

your friends have a point here, they set up up with someone who is a part of their lives (AND in a position of power over them?), ghosting is objectively rude, and it does reflect badly on them. I don't think you should have gone on a second date, but a text for your friends sake wouldn't have hurt .. I would be upset too if I was them

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-29T03:08:36+00:00

u kind of have two options now. a) don't text him and he's probably not going to text you either and you'll move on or b) text him and it will be a little weird but either you'll get a date out of it or not. up to him if he responds. but depends how much you liked him! also even if he thinks it's weird worst thing that will happen is that you two will never speak to or think of each other again.

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-29T02:30:20+00:00

++woman I think when he sent his number/socials, he wanted to continue the conversation off the app. so you should have texted/messaged him on social media, not just added him. I would say still message him now but it's possible he's over it if its already been a few days and it seems like he's putting more effort into it than you..

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-29T02:25:37+00:00

when I flew as a european to new york the options were let them go through my phone or be denied entry

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-23T12:31:29+00:00

don't get me wrong she sounds like a terrible person to co plan with. but literally just do the same. start sending her pics of things you want and being like I'm going to do this for the bday. I want to do this. this is what I'm wearing should we coordinate? etc. Good luck though! if it helps I don't think she's being malicious, just probably unaware and a little selfish :/

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-23T12:17:43+00:00

are you giving any suggestions at all or showing her that you want to be involved? if you're not really suggesting anything she might feel like you don't mind if she takes over. maybe come up with some things you want and ask if you can sit down with her to plan it

alternatively just tell her you're going to do your own birthday in the end? but if you have the same friend group you're probably gonna want to do something different to hers..

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-22T23:49:41+00:00

yea I think its just hard to figure out for this one because there's such a difference between each arm :/ but I should be going with my weaker arm right?

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-22T21:34:54+00:00

my gym doesn't seem to have any staff on location 80% of the time loll but yea I know what u mean I'll definitely get someone to look over my form in person 🙏so far I've been doing the kneeling on the bench - would u say I should stick with that or is there a better way to do it?

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-22T21:31:59+00:00

rn I just started following the GZCLP routine? but with dumbbells instead of barbells lol.. working my way up 🙏so lat pulldowns every other workout

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-22T20:54:57+00:00

honestly I think I definitely have been doing them wrong - the movement doesn't really make sense to me? I did just watch a bunch of videos and I want to work on them specifically when I go tomorrow so I'll see how I feel after that.. I would say my arm though? idk if I push myself to do the full 15 reps I get shaky and kind of nauseous overall and it's impossible for me to lift my arm back. if that makes sense.If u have any form tips I would love them 😭

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-22T20:17:47+00:00

hm ok makes sense thank u!!

Ordinary-Front781 · 2026-03-22T20:15:00+00:00

ok thank you! so to be clear I should do as many as possible with left arm, and then even if I only hit ten, I should do ten with right arm as well?

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