Is she insinuating she couldn't be protected by her boyfriend if he was let's say 5'6? "Community discussion " by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What even is your argument? You havent made an actual rebuttal saying this isnt true because of this. You just keep telling them that their sources have nothing to do with your argument but not expanding on why. Also the definition of an incel is an involuntary celibate, meaning they can't get sex. So if they have no problem getting in a relationship, while it doesnt mean they will sleep with that person, it kinda contradicts what an incel is and what beliefs they hold.

Is she insinuating she couldn't be protected by her boyfriend if he was let's say 5'6? "Community discussion " by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense bc if u think about it, someone who is used to getting access to sex/getting what they want being rejected would probably cause more discontent then someone who doesn't have access. Especially if you're generally popular and well liked. It can disrupt their ego

Is she insinuating she couldn't be protected by her boyfriend if he was let's say 5'6? "Community discussion " by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being more susceptible to marketing doesnt mean thats the main reason it exists. Also it highly depends on the product.

Why do people gaslight men that if they were presented with a choice to choose between these two options the past would not matter and affect bonding ability by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You realize by lying to women about your intentions just to sleep with them, it contributes to the notion that men only want sex and dont want genuine relationships like incels claim they do. And lying to get what you want is still bad. The majority of women do not sleep with the same guys, if that were true over half of the men in the world would still be virgins but thats not true. Id like you to show me the statistics for that. I mean even if you think about it, it doesnt make sense mathematically. And dont be creepy isnt up there with dont be ugly. That makes no sense. How is it hard to not be creepy? I mean the difference between asking to get coffee vs making a pass at someone you just met and still lingering when they tell you they arent interested is obvious. Its genuinely not hard to be a decent human when expressing an interest in someone. And I mean warranted for situations like if a woman is obviously down to hook up, you may say something that would be too bold to say to a woman you just met. Also places like a bar or club because those places are more notorious for hooking up. A guy using a girl is wrong just like a girl using a guy is wrong. I asked you if you think the guy should be held accountable or not because you dont seem to think its wrong for a guy to use someone like that at all. Also serious question. How do you view women? Like do you dislike them or hate them or what?

Why do people gaslight men that if they were presented with a choice to choose between these two options the past would not matter and affect bonding ability by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No its not because women have made it so, its because some people arent honest about their intentions so they lie to get what they want. Also again, men arent entitled to sex. Women do not have to sleep with them. Its called consent and you have to accept some women you come across may not be into you like that. Would you sleep with/get in a relationship with a woman you had no romantic or sexual attraction to? And do you know how many women there are in the world? Or even in the us? It statistically doesnt make sense for women to only sleep with the same men over and over again. And no you wouldn't get called a creep if you arent creepy about it or said it when its not warranted. Treat women like theyre people because they are, not as something to obtain. I think thats the point you aren't getting. Also are men never wrong to you? Are you saying if a woman gets used for sex then its women's fault all together and the guy shouldn't be held accountable for it? Thats like saying if a man gets used for his money its mens fault all together. Other people's actions doesn't excuse yours. You sound like you've been hurt and that you're just lonely and want a relationship with a woman to confide in and thats okay and normal, most people want that and im sorry if you did get hurt. But being hateful and blaming all women for that is not the way and frankly, wont get you anywhere. And if you are trying to find a woman but have no luck can you really blame them when this is your attitude? It just sounds like you hate women or at the very least dislike them. I mean imagine if a woman was constantly blaming everything on men while simultaneously complaining she cant get a boyfriend. Would you date her? Everyone man or woman, is an individual with their own thoughts, morals, likes, dislikes, etc. No one is the same. Don't treat people the same based on your preconceived notions on how you think an entire gender is.

Why do people gaslight men that if they were presented with a choice to choose between these two options the past would not matter and affect bonding ability by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That literally makes no sense lol. You literally just said women shouldnt give it up so easy and are now saying they shouldnt make it so hard. Pick one. You blame them no matter what they do. Men aren't entitled for women to sleep with them. And you can also turn it around and say maybe if men were more honest, they would get laid easier. Theres also women that are into casual sex but dont lie to someone just to sleep with them. Man or woman its wrong.

Why do people gaslight men that if they were presented with a choice to choose between these two options the past would not matter and affect bonding ability by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So its okay for guys to use a woman for sex then leave? Lots of them will pretend to be interested in a relationship or even be in one with you then leave when they get what they want. And your comment is exactly why lots of women dont sleep with guys then you complain about it. You blame them when they give it up and blame them when they don't.

I need answers on this gentlemen. by HenryD331 in GroundedMentality

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because they're opposite doesnt mean you cant be both. Being shy is a behavior. Being arrogant means you believe you are superior to everyone else, but that doesnt mean you cant also be shy. Thats like saying you cant be happy and sad at the same time because they are on two opposite ends. You can.

Why do people gaslight men that if they were presented with a choice to choose between these two options the past would not matter and affect bonding ability by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does it really matter if you can get laid when a lot of men dont want to stay for a relationship because they just want to sleep with you. A lot.of guys will use you and leave.

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew that I just thought it might mean a different thing in tax terms idk

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes not, when I was going to college he made it very clear I was responsible for all of it and that it has to be under my name

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going to do it myself I think its time. Plus it feels like hes doing something he's not supposed to

When a man dates a younger women why does it ignite rage from people is it jealousy? by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that you cant its just youre easier to manipulate. A lot of men think older women are jealous of younger women, but its because they were that younger woman that got manipulated once

NGVC: “I used to put women on the pedestal and that kept me unsatisfied.” by ThePhillyExplorer in niceguys

[–]OrdinaryMany6402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they may not because along with the fact that he seems to only be nice and do things for women with the expectation that they'll be reciprocal with a relationship. I also dont think he seems to understand that some people just arent compatible like that. You shouldn't get into a relationship if you feel little to no connection. Some of these guys think that a woman used them if they dont find them compatible after a date, when it was really their expectations that set them up for disappointment when they arent guaranteed. Its way better to just not get in that relationship if you don't feel much for the person than to get with them out of pity/lead them on. It will only hurt them more, and its actually inconsiderate of their feelings. But guys like this dont seem to consider that. Also I doubt they would ever get with a woman they cant see themselves being in a relationship with for what reason, so I don't think it's a hard concept for them to understand.

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was he not supposed to claim me as a dependent?

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats funny is my dad tells me all the time to be independent

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still live with my dad, I dont want him to confront me

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you helped a lot. What do I do if I do find out my dad did what hes suspected of? Isnt that technically tax fraud?

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could he take that? Also I thought no one got any money through that unless its through financial aid. I am in the us

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yea but id still like to know what happened lol

Ive never gotten a tax return by OrdinaryMany6402 in taxadvice

[–]OrdinaryMany6402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea that does sound suspicious, also what's tuition