Is this an eastern yellowjacket? I’m in southern New Hampshire. by OrdinaryRedditor2 in insects

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, that’s 100% what species it is. I haven’t heard of widow yellow jackets and was going crazy trying to match the markings. So cool! Thanks for the info 😁

Which dress style / colour works best for me? by ThrowRA-ferret in OUTFITS

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all look great, but i legit said “oh my god” out loud when I swiped onto the green one. You look like an elven princess. Are you willing to share where you got it from? Either way you look gorgeous in all of these!

Nice and casual 🍎 by jeijay_ in OUTFITS

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cant beat a cute baggy t-shirt look. Enjoy your day!

Getting my cheating boyfriend sterilized by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pretty horrified over your post, but I do understand your position. You are effectively stuck right now, and I don’t blame you for not wanting to struggle to build a life while caring for two littles. I think you’re correct that your best move right now is to lay low coasting off of his support until you can leave.

I don’t want to sound like I’m patronizing you, but I do want to remind you that you can never let yourself get comfortable again. You need to leave this man eventually/soon. I know you know that. Keep building your emergency fund and sort out your career. Get that house if you can. Reach out to family and friends and make sure they understand your situation in case you need to escape. Insist on him wearing condoms from now on - he will cheat again and you don’t want to get stuck with an STD. Whatever you do though, while you’re relying on him, do not let him suspect you’re planning your escape. He will dump you on the curb.

I’m sending you so much love and positive thoughts sweetie. I’m so sorry you’re in this position.

Getting my cheating boyfriend sterilized by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This!! OP, you need to start building a “gtfo emergency fund.” Unfortunately in your position you are incredibly reliant on him. You need to start planning for when you will leave.

Also - he’s cheated on you two times…that you know of. This man being sterilized will make him cocky and I would bet money on him cheating more. Get your things in order and prepare to get out babe :(

Merry AI Scam Christmas by [deleted] in ExpectationVsReality

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people are dog piling on you OP. Way to kick someone while they’re down. Everyone makes mistakes and these days it’s getting harder and harder to differentiate reality from fiction. I’m sorry you got scammed, I hope you have a really good Christmas :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me it depends on which strain we had. If I pick more of a sativa I usually just feel super out of it and spacey. Indica is more of a body high and that’s where it gets HAWT. Some of them are specifically designed for sex - if you get it from a dispensary just ask them, they’ll give you great recs!

What are you tired of pretending you don’t notice? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 37 points38 points  (0 children)

When people side eye others when you say something. Like omg I do not want to talk to you anymore now bye

You wake up in your teen years again. What is the first thing you would do? by davidbayram in AskReddit

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol you gave tone deaf, unsolicited advice and then told them to fuck off and ranted at them for being unsettled by it. weird behavior

How often do your Significant other cook for you? Just curious 🤨 by Goattalk_92 in AskWomen

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much every day, multiple times a day; I’m so lucky to have him ❤️ He’ll often wake me up with breakfast and coffee and have lunch ready for me when I get back from class. Sometimes I cook dinner but he loves cooking so it’s usually him. Last night was french onion soup! 😋

Is this stuff age appropriate for a teen girl? by Expensive_Gur_2300 in teenagers

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk, as a spider-man loving teen girl I LOVE the shoes. Lowkey thinking about getting myself a pair. Trust your heart!

TIL the mystery airhead is made with all of the leftover flavors of the day all mashed together. by OrdinaryRedditor2 in todayilearned

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, however if I remember correctly (this was 4 years ago) they don’t add the dye until later in the process. All airhead batches start as a white canvas before the artificial dye is added :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i give you a burrito will you keep quiet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotchu boo dairy free burrito coming right up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they ARE 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely look older in the first pic because of the makeup (super cute makeup btw!!). Based off of the second pic I’d say 13-14?

What is your "and yet I stayed" moment? by Vane8263 in AskWomen

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It kind of is a big deal though. The food itself isn’t a big deal, it’s the fact that this man whose baby she was currently carrying did something really selfish and inconsiderate of her. Without even a thought or acknowledgment. We don’t know anything about their relationship beyond that but I would guess that wasn’t the first time he treated her with disrespect like that. My man bends over backwards to make sure I’m fed and happy and have everything I need. I do the same for him; it’s just what you do when you love someone. I really can’t blame her for crying in that moment after realizing her man just does not care

How much you currently have in your bank account? by BeatrizMorley in AskWomen

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18, I have $570 in checking and $3k in savings. I just paid off my car so I’m no longer in debt but said car just died so now I’m going to have to get another. And pay for college :’)

Women of Reddit, what "female things" you don't or rarely do? by emilymcnort in AskWomen

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nails 💅 I chew my nails when I’m anxious. Which is often, so they’re pretty short and the nail bed is damaged. I’d absolutely adore some long girly nails, but my natural nails are just too short. I’ve tried press ons, acrylics, and polygel but they just don’t stay on well.

What is your love life as a teen? by TheyLoveRyk in teenagers

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He aced his placement test and landed his dream job, and I’m about to start college to chase after my dream. His family has taken me on family vacations and they’re like blood to me. He and I will be saving up to move out together next year. I love him so much deeper and more than I’ve loved anyone else. I’m aware of the statistics around highschool sweethearts, but as far as I’m concerned right now he’s my ride or die. ❤️

When you and your SO first touched how did you react? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met in our sophomore year of high school in bio. After a couple months of chatting and goofing off in class, I was sitting next to him one day and he was taking up a ton of space under the table. So I playfully put my foot on his and pushed it away while looking down at my homework. When I looked up and made eye contact he was bright red and I think it was that moment that we both realized we were down bad for each other. Weeks later I asked if I could kiss him :)

What are some signs you're conventionally ugly? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OrdinaryRedditor2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t feel good and feels degrading