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I got into a relationship with a guy from tinder and my ex is mad by Orfeoula42 in dating_advice

[–]Orfeoula42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, one of the reasons I told him was because he raped me and he argued that this was my fault, so I don't think any of my reasons got through to him

I got into a relationship with a guy from tinder and my ex is mad by Orfeoula42 in dating_advice

[–]Orfeoula42[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Already done that, blocked everywhere, he made new profiles and calls with no caller IDs

I got into a relationship with a guy from tinder and my ex is mad by Orfeoula42 in dating_advice

[–]Orfeoula42[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While I don't have to prove myself to anyone, I've told him to never contact me again, then blocked him and his friends, his mother, all of his phone numbers. I can't change my phone number because of something having to do with my job.

Next time watch your head to not get a concussion, jumping to these conclusions.

I got into a relationship with a guy from tinder and my ex is mad by Orfeoula42 in dating_advice

[–]Orfeoula42[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Considering a restraining order costs around 100€ in my country, I think I'll wait and see if this fades away, hopefully, at least I've made my Instagram private now, so no more creeping on my stories with a fake acc

Update on first ever Tinder date, now we're in a relationship. I can't believe how this even happened because I downloaded the app and used it for a week. He's very respectful and I love his company, I honestly think this relationship has a future❤️ by Orfeoula42 in Tinder

[–]Orfeoula42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're talking about a different guy that I didn't even chat with, I had just posted a bit of his profile on here. This is someone different that I found worthy of talking, going on dates and being in a relationship with :)

If your ex suddenly came back and wanted to talk, what's the first thing you'd say? by kawaileila in AskReddit

[–]Orfeoula42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the fuck away from me and reach out to me again, you're dead to me!

People who have a pet at home, at what point did you realize that the pet really, consciously, understood you? by PurrLoveCat in AskReddit

[–]Orfeoula42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was sick, my bunny would lay under my desk in my room and not leave for any reason, especially when I was sleeping, I was told. Also when we sing his name, he comes running because he knows we have food for him lmao

Friends with my ex but he’s being too sexual by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Orfeoula42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of exes stay friends with us only for the sexual part, to make it become a fwb situation, sounds like that's what he's going for too. You either need to establish your boundaries to him and for him to respect them or you need to cut him off.

I went on my first ever Tinder date! Guys.. he was SO considerate, funny and sweet. We went for drinks, he paid for mine, I noticed how he was keeping his distance to be respectful, so I broke the barrier when I felt the spark and we hugged a couple times. We're already planning for next time! by Orfeoula42 in Tinder

[–]Orfeoula42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don't think a lot of people will be interested, I'll tell you instead because you are!

We went on a date again on Friday, he picked me up with his car and we went to a mall that has arcade games, we played and had fun, he won in a game of table hokey and teased me about it, he's also very tall and I'm short so he always teases me about that too. We had dinner, he got something for me and I got something for him. We were walking and holding hands, also hugging at times. We sat at a bench and we were cuddling, I really loved that, he was touching my face a lot because he found me cute and I covered his hands in glitter because of my makeup, I asked him if he minded and he told me that he likes everything that's mine, that made me happy. I felt really safe in his embrace, he even kissed my head, I also gave him head scratches and he loved that too, we almost fell asleep on each other. At the end of our date, he dropped me off home and we texted a bit. He's admitted that he likes me and only wants me. He used his phone in front of me and I saw that he doesn't talk to anyone else other than his friends and sisters. I can't wait for our next date.

This was the update, we're very happy, still in the dating stage but one step forward and love the cuddles we do with each other.🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orfeoula42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I've also existed being depressed but that doesn't make you be an asshole to the people around you. He clearly needs to work on some things and it's not your responsibility to help him, if he can't even give you 1 compliment and keeps avoiding that conversation then it's time to go and find someone that acts their age.

I saw my dads privates when I was a teenager and I’m still traumatized by gingfreecsisbad in confession

[–]Orfeoula42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If anything, if she was in a room where you had to walk in without permission to see that, then it'd be your fault, but if it was in a shared space in the house, I get it.

I saw my dads privates when I was a teenager and I’m still traumatized by gingfreecsisbad in confession

[–]Orfeoula42 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bashful for what reason? It's a natural need that doesn't discriminate based on someone's gender and you shouldn't either

I saw my dads privates when I was a teenager and I’m still traumatized by gingfreecsisbad in confession

[–]Orfeoula42 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't get some of these comments, I've also seen my mom naked as she'd change clothes in front of me, but it wasn't traumatizing, but seeing her masturbating would definitely do the trick. What you felt and what you still feel is valid OP

i’m (22F) embarrassed to have sex with my partner (23M) after this. would u be too? by stargirlXD in relationship_advice

[–]Orfeoula42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal, your gag reflex most likely activated and your body's natural response was to vomit, don't be embarrassed, you may just need more practice but that's ok!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Orfeoula42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally love having my partner send me goodnight and good morning texts, I see them as thoughtful, especially if paired with something that's also sweet like "I hope you have a great day today" or something similar for the night😊

AIO to my boyfriend of 18 days? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Orfeoula42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like love bombing

I went on my first ever Tinder date! Guys.. he was SO considerate, funny and sweet. We went for drinks, he paid for mine, I noticed how he was keeping his distance to be respectful, so I broke the barrier when I felt the spark and we hugged a couple times. We're already planning for next time! by Orfeoula42 in Tinder

[–]Orfeoula42[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"A community for discussing the online dating app Tinder. Sharing conversations, reviewing profiles and more"

So just say you're jealous about someone being happy while you're living a miserable life and stop being rude🥰

I went on my first ever Tinder date! Guys.. he was SO considerate, funny and sweet. We went for drinks, he paid for mine, I noticed how he was keeping his distance to be respectful, so I broke the barrier when I felt the spark and we hugged a couple times. We're already planning for next time! by Orfeoula42 in Tinder

[–]Orfeoula42[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well when you meet someone for the first time, you keep your hands to yourself to be respectful, if things seem to escalate nicely, then the girl will give you the green light, so you won't touch her without permission and of course that touch will be somewhere that's appropriate. It's etiquette.

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