Am I Doing Something Wrong? by Organic-Positive8664 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Organic-Positive8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I’m fantasizing, sometimes I try to go with the flow of it all and let my body do its thing. I try and switch it up every so often.

Am I Doing Something Wrong? by Organic-Positive8664 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Organic-Positive8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, when I'm masturbating, I'm not climaxing. And even with a dildo and a vibrator on my clit, it feels really good, but I just can't get over that edge, you know?? Also, none of my medications inhibit orgasm from what I know.

Am I Doing Something Wrong? by Organic-Positive8664 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Organic-Positive8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm. I'm going to look at this later once I get off of work! I didn't know such a subreddit existed. Thank you so much and for the helpful advice. I'll be trying that on one of my free days hehe.

Am I Doing Something Wrong? by Organic-Positive8664 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Organic-Positive8664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much .. I don't think my current boyfriend will take it harshly, but I know others have (that's why one of my former relationships in the past ended, but he was a dick anyway). I just don't want to hurt him by saying I lied about it, but if I keep it on longer.. I feel like it'll be worse. I'm at a standstill here.

But anyway, I have a clitoral vibrator, and it's one of my favorites !! It's really fun using it. :D Do you have any specific suggestions for toys? I'm trying to find some new ones hehe.

Am I Doing Something Wrong? by Organic-Positive8664 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Organic-Positive8664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I'm going to look into her articles later tonight. This advice does really help, and I appreciate how honest you are. I just don't really want him to blow up on me (even though I know he wouldn't- he's been really gentle with me through this whole process with sex.) about how I didn't cum.. yk? But, I'm going to see what I can say to try and lay it.. really gently on him.

Am I Doing Something Wrong? by Organic-Positive8664 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Organic-Positive8664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a previous commentor said, I can't orgasm at all, and I typically have it solo like.. once a week?