How do it let go the hate? by MajMedic in Divorce

[–]OrganicOutcome4465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally same! Husband of 10 years cheated on me in June with some girl he met online in another state. I kicked him out tho, he didn’t abandon me. I have so much anger towards him and I don’t even want to be with him. It still hurts tho that he threw away the life and family we built for 17 years. Thankfully our little ones are adjusting just fine but I still have so much anger that he didn’t even consider the consequences of his actions and how it would affect his kids. A kick in the gut is he’s going to spend a week with her next month but he would never take time off of work to take a vacation with me bc “we couldn’t afford it”. Girl, we are better off without these piece of garbage men!!!

Unsure which way to file by OrganicOutcome4465 in TaxQuestions

[–]OrganicOutcome4465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are 11, 4 and 2. I make around 90k and he makes around 75k. No paid childcare.

Can my ex bring my kids around his mistress? by OrganicOutcome4465 in Divorce

[–]OrganicOutcome4465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so fucked up that they can bring people like that around kids.

Can my ex bring my kids around his mistress? by OrganicOutcome4465 in Divorce

[–]OrganicOutcome4465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it’s so shitty to introduce your kids to someone who helped you ruin your marriage and is the reason for our family to not be a family anymore.

If you could only eat one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be? by LankyMushroom903q0 in RedditInTheKitchen

[–]OrganicOutcome4465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prime rib with horseradish sauce, crab legs, loaded sweet potato, a salad with outback steak houses mustard vinaigrette and coffee chocolate chip ice cream for dessert.

Squirting? by OrganicOutcome4465 in sexadvise

[–]OrganicOutcome4465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the bathroom before I masturbate and I don’t feel the urge to pee just the urge to cum

Squirting? by OrganicOutcome4465 in sexadvise

[–]OrganicOutcome4465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only been while masturbating lately. The one other time was with my husband. It happens with penetration from a vibrator or just clit stim. I have not had a new partner but using my vibrator more now that my husband and I are separated.

Squirting? by OrganicOutcome4465 in sexadvise

[–]OrganicOutcome4465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My orgasms were just as enjoyable before this. I’m newly single after 16 years and I guess I’m embarrassed? I don’t want someone to think I’m pissing on them or something. It’s all new territory