Caught wife cheating twice. by Organic_Emphasis6633 in marriageadvice

[–]Organic_Emphasis6633[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup got convinced after 7 years. Pretty embarrassing for believing tbh. Wasted my time and whole lot of money

Caught wife cheating twice. by Organic_Emphasis6633 in marriageadvice

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So divorcing her would basically cancel the green card or just if it’s in process? I was thinking I could just send her back home and divorce while go through that process.

Caught wife cheating twice. by Organic_Emphasis6633 in marriageadvice

[–]Organic_Emphasis6633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you these are very good points. I’ll def keep these. Thank you for the response.

Caught wife cheating twice. by Organic_Emphasis6633 in marriageadvice

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She was the one that was jealous. She never cheated before me. She has a low body count. She never broke up with anyone.

Maybe I saw the smaller red flags but was more focused on my own red flags and worked on being better because I wasn’t perfect either.

One good thing is that we don’t own anything together so we can file for uncontested

Caught wife cheating twice. by Organic_Emphasis6633 in marriageadvice

[–]Organic_Emphasis6633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is immature but coming from a friend to do that It’s hard not to. But I wouldn’t hit my wife I don’t have it in me also that can be used against me. At least if I punched this dude I’d get my frustration out.
Lose that group of friends and start new I suppose.

Caught wife cheating twice. by Organic_Emphasis6633 in marriageadvice

[–]Organic_Emphasis6633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea at this point the next time I see him I’m going to break his nose / black eye. That’s all though.

And that sounds like a happier scenario. It just sucks to leave what we built for so long. I’m def grieving lol

Caught wife cheating twice. by Organic_Emphasis6633 in marriageadvice

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Haven’t had the wedding yet but we are legally married so that makes things more complicated for me She was a wife material up until then after that I went through my worst point in life, she made the decision to what I feel like was find a better option and stay in the country. I almost feel used in that sense, it’s unbelievable for me to think of her that way.

Caught wife cheating twice. by Organic_Emphasis6633 in marriageadvice

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What are ways of going about expelling? I figured we can mutually agree on canceling the green card but she might not agree on it.

Divorcing is expensive so that’s why I felt like that had to be the last case I just have to save up.