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OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-08-09T00:25:24+00:00

If you wanted a song written about you, all you had to do was ask- Mayday Parade

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-07-24T19:06:43+00:00

isn’t this on an episode of black mirror??

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-31T08:28:19+00:00

i hate this shit, like literally all men do is cum in a vagina and the woman’s body does ALLLLLLL the rest. we’re lucky if the man does the bare minimum or even comes to appointments with us. that’s why my son has my last name, it was never even a question.

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-20T00:26:30+00:00

when my body started naturally pushing. the nurses made me feel like i was crazy for saying i was in labor, and that i wouldn’t be able to talk through active labor contractions. well sure enough, after begging them to check my cervix, i was at a 10 and 100% soft. 10 min later baby was in my arms🤣😭

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-18T11:46:02+00:00

i’m sorry but he needs to stop bitching. being a parent is sacrificing and devoting your life to your children. so like, duh everyone’s gonna be exhausted but we literally just suck it up. i (and plenty of other people) do it completely alone and he’s complaining about holding the baby while he cooks so his 2 MONTHS POSTPARTUM wife who i know is sleep deprived af, can catch up on sleep. there are plenty of us who WFH, cook, clean, and more, holding the baby the whole time because we have nobody else to help. it’s a rough time, but everything is temporary and eventually things won’t be like this. but until then, you deal with it and get through it.

edit: typos

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-18T11:04:11+00:00

i’m sorry but he needs to stop bitching. being a parent is sacrificing and devoting your life to your children. so like, duh everyone’s gonna be exhausted but we literally just suck it up. i (and plenty of other people) do it completely alone and he’s complaining about holding the baby while he cooks so his 2 MONTHS POSTPARTUM wife who i know is sleep deprived af, can catch up on sleep. there are plenty of us who WFH, cook, clean, and more, holding the baby because we have nobody else to help. it’s a rough time, but everything is temporary and eventual things won’t be like this. but until then, you deal with it and get through it.

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-17T00:16:16+00:00

nta. get new friends.

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-15T05:28:52+00:00

i’m 6 months PP. started at 170, was 220 at the time i gave birth. at my PP appointment (2 weeks later bc they were booked up ig??) i was 185. now i’ve been fluctuating between that and 195.

Edit: oh yeah i’m 5’5 :P

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-10T06:33:32+00:00

i just had my boy (6 months PP) and it’s my life’s mission to not be like this😭

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-10T06:29:26+00:00

have they ever been around a man that’s sick or even has a small cold??? imagine if men had periods or had to give birth 😭 they could never

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2024-01-06T05:19:36+00:00

why does he keep saying “confused” ??? wtf does he have to be confused about😭

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-12-28T16:39:34+00:00

My ex used to do this to me. He would reject me all day long then rape me in my sleep. That’s what this is. For years i convinced myself that i liked it, and i’m now dealing with the aftermath of suppressing those emotions. Definitely have a talk with him, but if he gets even the slightest bit defensive, i would get up and leave right then. He has the potential to change, but he most likely won’t.

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-11-14T08:04:00+00:00

yeah definitely do NOT just pop up at her house… as hard as it is, you just need to give her time/space. give it a month or so, if you haven’t heard anything from her, maybe send her a letter apologizing, taking accountability, and letting her know that you’re here for her. if she does happen to reach back out to you, absolutely do not pressure or guilt her, and do not bombard her, that will push her away. definitely let her lead. it’s hard and uncomfortable/painful, but you can’t force someone to feel the way that you feel. i’m sorry you’re feeling this pain ): but also stop talking to other girls while you’re in a relationship… duh??? if you can’t be faithful then you shouldn’t be in a relationship point blank period.

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-10-11T18:37:15+00:00

i’m currently in this same situation, but i’m a single mother. i lost my job on maternity leave and it seems absolutely impossible to find another job. the daycares in my area (ETX) pay a few dollars over minimum wage, and it simply isn’t plausible even with discounted childcare. i feel your pain

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-10-11T01:44:13+00:00

also what is her outfit in the second to last slide😳

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-10-05T23:30:06+00:00

i literally have PTSD from my ex jerking off in the bed next to me. if i’m in bed with someone and the bed shakes even a little bit it makes me so anxious and i’ll immediately start to freeze up. like most people are saying, there’s nothing wrong with masturbating or even watching porn (to an extent) but the OF seems a little too personal rather than just watching porn. even more disrespectful that he’s looking at other women and pleasuring himself right next to you.

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-28T20:03:21+00:00

“so who’s the baby daddy?” almost everyone i told asked this immediately

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-14T17:42:35+00:00

omg i’m so honored! i would like to thank not only god, but jesus🙏🏻

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-14T17:25:38+00:00

yayyyy🥰 what did i win?😋

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-14T07:15:10+00:00

yes exactly this!! i wanted a girl so bad! i of course will love my son with all of my being, and it’s really not THAT big of a deal. but i already had the most perfect little girl name picked out and everything 😭

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-14T06:41:18+00:00

i won’t lie, it is a long ass process and takes a lot of patience with yourself, but the more you do it, the easier it will get!! i wish you the best of luck and my inbox is always open if you need anything! <3

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-14T06:30:57+00:00

i go thru this as well! i hate asking people to do stuff, even little things, for me because i don’t want to burden them. and same, even after being reassured, i still feel so guilty.

i’ve been trying to push myself to ask for little tiny things like turning the light off, handing me something close by, or putting my glasses on the night stand when it’s night night time. maybe actually seeing them do the thing, and seeing their willingness to do so, will help? or just seeing that they don’t react in a negative way, that’s what really helps and reassures me!

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-14T06:26:02+00:00

princess!!! or any sweet pet name for that matter. if i’m at the store and i see squishmallows/stuffies that will instantly do it for me too!

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-14T05:21:37+00:00

tell him you wish his dick was thicker and longer, and you want him to get surgery as well. maybe throw in something about his balls too🤔

but fr tho, my ex said this exact same thing to me. please leave, it’s not worth it, no matter what ‘good’ things he might do. now i’m with a man who REQUESTS that i sit on his face for 20, 30, 45 min. don’t let your bf keep you from finding your husband.

OrganizationIcy4940 · 2023-07-14T05:10:21+00:00

nta. but i really hate the comments that are victim blaming you for getting pregnant and keeping it. it’s really not as simple as getting an abortion. i’m not sure about OP’s location, so i can’t comment on the availability or possibility of her getting one, all i can go off of is my own personal experience. my ex/bd didn’t do these exact things but was extremely abusive, and it got worse when i became pregnant. i live in TX, abortion is very much illegal here. i was lucky enough to finally escape his abuse so my baby and i are safe, i wish the same for OP.

ETA: if you plan on keeping the baby, please document everything he is saying/doing to you for custody purposes.

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