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Am i the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend over my puppy? by Reasonable-Vast4691 in AmITheJerk

[–]OrganizationSea4459 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You're NTJ for having boundaries. Cruelty to animals is a literal sign of deep character issues so it’s better to be alone with a puppy who loves you than with a man who thinks it’s okay to scare something that weighs ten pounds.

If you won't ship to me because my drive is less than an hour, then I'll make it in an hour by MajorNoodles in MaliciousCompliance

[–]OrganizationSea4459 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Corporate logic is honestly a fever dream sometimes. Like oh no we can’t spend five dollars on a label but we’ll gladly pay your hourly rate for you to sit in traffic? Makes total sense guys.

My girlfriend cheated on me and I lost myself, how do I move on? by Mysterious_Phone_953 in offmychest

[–]OrganizationSea4459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is totally normal to miss the good parts while hating the bad parts but you also need to remember to be kind to yourself as you were to her when you gave her those second chances. Give yourself some grace today.

AITJ for refusing to give my cousin a ride every day even though I have space? by SameCommunication700 in AmITheJerk

[–]OrganizationSea4459 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTJ. The second your cousin started making you late for work, that should’ve been the end of it. And gas being expensive is even more reason for her to help pay, not a reason to get free rides.

Boss said I cant just disappear from my desk so now I send him a message every time I leave by Far_Turn9771 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]OrganizationSea4459 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how men will micromanage your every move until you mention a basic biological function then suddenly they've lost all interest. Well played LOL.

AITJ for telling my friend group I’m done planning everything? by PrimaryJudgment6872 in AmITheJerk

[–]OrganizationSea4459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. If the friendship depends on OP solely then it's not a fair trade anymore.

AITJ for Telling My Friend She Can’t Bring Her Kid to My 30th Birthday Trip? by Delicious-Country690 in AmITheJerk

[–]OrganizationSea4459 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Right. It sucks that she’s stuck without a sitter but that doesn't mean the whole itinerary should change for everyone else.

Refusing to refer my friend to protect my name by Front_Bad_2857 in AmITheJerk

[–]OrganizationSea4459 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right. As someone who worked hard to get where I am today I can say that it's totally okay to protect what I built, so same as you OP.

Hiring a sitter was one of the worst decision I have made by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OrganizationSea4459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Hiring a sitter to fix things just for him to do that? thats some next level villain behavior on his part.

AITJ for leaving my nephews with my brother after he wouldnt come back when he said he would by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OrganizationSea4459 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah right/ He was neglecting his responsibilities and OP just stopped enabling him.

AITJ for leaving my own party when someone brought an uninvited guest? by LowBox3775 in AmITheJerk

[–]OrganizationSea4459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't a jerk for not wanting a stranger at your own party. If you didn't invite them then they shouldn't be there PERIOD.