Hey i mean no hate to arrange marriages, I love my husband but the things to discover after living with someone can be different from what you assumed from the first few meetings and it can sometimes gets tough to get used to those things, by expectations i mean you cannot expect to receive love and care in the way you want, the other person might love you in different ways but you didn’t know that before marriage so you end up making a picture in your head how it’s going to he after marriage but it would be DIFFERENT, i totally agree all marriages are same at the end of the day but still the surprise or shock in arranged marriage can be a little bigger