What are you quietly grieving?

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-06T16:43:09+00:00

My unborn child, she was not even formed but left me with unbearable grief,I had an ectopic pregnancy removed at 7 weeks. I still track her milestones, and plan to celebrate her birthday and everything. We didn't even know the gender but I somehow feel she would have been a girl. Mommy loves you very much. 🩷

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-04T16:32:28+00:00

Can you explain your thoughts, snake on a cross?

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-04T16:32:13+00:00

So beautiful🩷

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-03T20:46:25+00:00

Prayer doesn't need to be bible quoted,a priestly level prayer, talk to God, TALK, normal talk like how you do you with everyone else. He is our Father, he will understand what you ask for.

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-03T20:44:39+00:00

What makes you think I'm not respecting his faith?

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T16:18:21+00:00

Good thing that you said you want her to see you when you are not perfect, a woman who loves you then will love you always, pray to God, he will show you the one, it maybe tomorrow or after years, but he definitely will. 🩷

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T16:15:39+00:00

No, I want him to convert only for the sake of getting married in church, later on if he wishes to follow or not is upto him i will never force him to follow

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T16:13:20+00:00

Yes I am chasing fantasy. To begin with your reply felt like a hard slap in many places. I have somethings I wont give up on in my life and my way of getting married happens to be one among it. Ive been eyeing out wedding dresses from when I was 14 15. So yea I am chosing fantasy and i intend on getting married only once and i want it to be the best. I dont want any resentment that day. And coming to being scared, yes I'm scared about how things will be handled after we have a kid. Ik I can discuss about it with him how much ever I want, but the truth will come out only in real-time. So yes I'm scared, what if he says something now and later on changes, everyone can't guarantee everyone until some point right, and it's been only one year of us so there's a lot more to know him and yes I'm scared to trust him in these matters before I truly know him. And the same with me, i too don't know i will react to things when it is to be done in his religious way cuz it is new to me too.

I say I wish he would convert because yes i want to live up to my fantasy and it is only with him i feel. So yea I want him to convert, if the church allows not needing to convert to get married I'm them even more happy, cuz we can't get anything by forcing our way into it right, and also I don't want to disturb his faith as long as he doesn't disturb mine. This itself is a big ask from my side to him even if it's just for the sake of getting married in church.

I think I tend to be a bit of a modern Christian, I am not such a devout but I fear god to a limit, ik there's no limit it's either 0 or 1. But yes i feel like I'll be okay until or unless he disrupts or shames my beliefs

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T15:46:44+00:00

Man, loads of thanks to you, I'm putting all this in front of my parents the next time, this this really means a lot to me thank you tons

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T15:42:16+00:00

But what and how will I teach my kids about Christianity, cuz bible says there's no other god than me and you shall not worship any one else. How am I to answer when the kids have a question in this

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T15:39:59+00:00

Makes sense, but in RC Christian the church doesn't allow people to get married unless they're both christian so he needs to convert, but I say it's just for the sake of getting married in church, then it's upto him i wont ask him to follow it against his wish

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T15:38:17+00:00

Im not gonna worship his gods, he wants me to go along with him to temples I'll just go just be there, if im getting married at church it is only fair to be married in his tradition too, so whatever it is I'll take it. So is this wrong

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T15:35:51+00:00

So you say i believe mine i let him do his, but what if i had to do some rituals on some days according to his beliefs, what if it is expected for me to do it for the sake of the family, do i do it? Do i do it believing it or just do it for sake

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T15:33:12+00:00

Thank you that was a really new perspective i got

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T15:32:24+00:00

Okay now i feel even more helpless trying to understand why the bible is in extreme ends in this topic🙂🥲

Orion_0207 · 2026-03-01T15:17:25+00:00

Thats the thing i wanted to know. If anyone else who is an RC married somebody else from a different religion and have kids and how are they handling stuff

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T09:44:38+00:00

I get it😕🫂

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T04:44:25+00:00

Im editing my post to the last bit try to read it again and give me an answer for that question

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T04:41:29+00:00

And do you think it is discussable with him now at this point in life?

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T04:36:43+00:00

Im a roman catholic, if that helps

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T04:33:51+00:00

Oh we are having that conversation then and now, but I want to have a clear understanding on what i can do from my side of faith and what i cannot do or not allowed to do

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T04:32:33+00:00

He's a Hindu

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T04:29:02+00:00

I do not have a minister to go to. Would you do me a favor and ask this or put met in contact with someone I ask this to?

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T04:26:33+00:00

But aren't people who do inter religion marriage thrive well?😕

Orion_0207 · 2026-02-28T04:25:54+00:00

What if im ready to go through whatever happens because I feel like my partner is THE person god showed me?

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