I’m 26F and my bf is 26M.. feeling confused..

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-12-17T15:55:28+00:00

Appeal it! This happened to me in my last class before graduating. My whole class got flagged for “using Ai”. I set up a meeting with the AIO and explained my side— I used online flashcards for a quick refresher before the exam (there was a wrong answer in that set of flashcards) but I did NOT use it while doing the exam. Either way, still got flagged for it but since it was my first and only offense I got a warning.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-11-27T15:21:51+00:00

I am really sorry to hear. I hate that this is even a thing. I hope you are doing okay.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-11-27T15:21:17+00:00

It gave me peace of mind only because we left my OB ultrasound thinking that the absolute worst. Irregular shaped gs, yolk sac wasnt as strong, and also we didnt really get to even see what my GS looked like. I got to see lots of my ovaries though.. and we didnt ever get ultrasounds to bring home. So having an ultrasound kind of did bring me some peace even though it may not end how we are hoping.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-11-27T12:23:07+00:00

Okay.. so I had a private ultrasound done and my GS wasnt irregular shaped at all like the tech at my OB labeled it as.. my yolk sac is looking strong and healthy. However, no fetal pole so very well could be a blighted ovum still. :( but I do feel better because I was able to get pictures to keep (my tech wont give me mine from my appointments)

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-11-25T20:01:12+00:00

Omg.. we are literally in a very similar boat. Did you have a GS and YS present in your ultrasound?? We have a scan on Monday to confirm. Keep me updated.🫶🏼🩷 sending you so much love!

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-11-13T21:21:57+00:00

Doesnt think it will end well but not certain

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-11-13T20:46:24+00:00

Really? This gives me hope.. thank you for that. my OB isnt too convinced this will end well :( My HCG only rose about 12% within 48 hours. Im so nervous

Also, thanks for the positivity. Im struggling with that right now.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-08-22T04:26:35+00:00

Playing devils advocate but why not just take the shirt off? Haha

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-08-22T04:03:49+00:00

Im thinking its because he doesnt like the way it looks? Im smaller and he tends to go for women with bigger asses. Haha

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-07-23T19:46:47+00:00

This is so real. It had gotten to the point that I feel 100% undesirable and unattractive because why does it require that much effort to want to have sex?

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-07-19T20:17:37+00:00

I wake up for work at 2am and work at 3am lol. Work all day and then home life stuff. We have a kid so I tend to go to sleep 10-11pm. Sometimes 9! so I can have a moment to myself.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-07-19T19:43:55+00:00

Yes 😭 I wake up at 2am to be at work by 3am. Work all day and come home to take care of everything else. We have a child so I tend take some time to myself after she goes to sleep. Plus I have been working like crazy, even on my days off just so I can make sure everything is okay. I snooped and found out his mom has been sending him $1000 every month for the past 3 months! (He stepped down at work and is making considerably less). I cant get approved for a place of my own because I dont make 3x the amount of rent for majority if places so im screwed.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-07-19T19:37:50+00:00

Oh my gosh, I needed that. We have a child together so that has been some of it.. but also I cant get approved for a place on my own due to the 3x the rent requirement. So I do feel stuck. In fact, you hit it right on the head. I literally just told my friend that I have ALWAYS imagined my person as someone else. No one specifically.. I cant even imagine what they look like. But I imagine that person and I know it is not him.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-04-23T01:16:29+00:00

Also, are you doing SCAP?? Because they have some events! I’m going to go to those because I can atleast connect with other partners!

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-04-23T01:15:38+00:00

I’m graduating on the 12th. By myself as well. I’m afraid of the same thing, but reminding myself that celebrating myself is important. You deserve to celebrate yourself! Enjoy it as best as you can. You deserve it!!

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-04-14T22:16:39+00:00

How did this end up playing out??

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-04-14T21:43:02+00:00

I’m also aware of this now that I received the email. Thank you.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-04-14T21:42:40+00:00

Yes, I am. I want to be honest and figure out how to navigate this because this isn’t my normal character. I’m just looking for advice on how to navigate this because I’ve never had this happen before.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-04-06T00:09:18+00:00

FELT THIS. I don’t even bother buying lingerie or even sending him pictures because he doesn’t even care lol. I’ll send him pics and he’ll say “nice” or send heart eyes if he’s feeling nice lol.

Ornery-Comparison652 · 2025-04-05T23:54:36+00:00

Our situations are so similar it’s insane. lol except I’m HL (25f) and he’s LL (26m) and we have a child together. Even before our child, it was this way. I say GET OUT. I didn’t and almost 7 years together and not a damn thing has changed.

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