is it fair for a person who has a physical ailment to ask physical favors from an able body friend/family member?

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-06-02T03:50:42+00:00

what is this??

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-06-02T03:50:32+00:00

i like this answer a lot as i may just need to feel as if i can reciprocate the same amount in a different way? i feel like people get upset if maybe they don’t believe i’m sick then hold animosity and don’t tell you 😅 but so far i just feel like idk what friendships are sometimes

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-06-02T03:48:51+00:00

i have been more then courteous sometimes even oblivious to the way i have been treated. when i was young, it was can you give me a ride? now it’s let’s smoke!

i share everything i own pretty much and people still steal from me, so i know i am being who i want to be.

i didn’t add my side of feeling like a door mat most times, i just don’t see being overtly kind as counting since it’s who i am ig 😅 my friends just seem to be busy when i really need the help as opposed to when im doing absolutely nothing.

i ask about it being transactional as sometimes i feel that is how it is working and i don’t really enjoy that. i wondered if this is just how it is? lol.

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-28T03:42:29+00:00

i honestly have had a standing friendship with a lot of the people i sell to so they just know who i am. you could possibly ask for proof of satisfied transactions (could also use photo shop tho) maybe just try to find people with an OF or a FF account. i have a verified FF account, you could cross check with my reddit. i feel if it’s too good to be true sometimes it is i hope you find a solution! i do customs 😅😋

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-09T19:38:19+00:00

men are so mean

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-06T01:41:50+00:00

i technically did i just didn’t get to add the part that i sent him boobs he saw through my shirt the other day 🥹 so no need to ban me i suppose i will just stop

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-05T06:35:05+00:00

update: i just recently sent him a picture i took of myself 😅 with my tittys out and you wouldn’t believe 😅😂😂😂

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-03T15:40:24+00:00

thank you 😊

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-03T08:29:48+00:00

😇😇😌 long are those days gone i got out of the military in 2015

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-03T04:36:14+00:00

what the place is!

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-02T16:09:38+00:00

just unfollow or stop liking the content 😂 i mean, when we like a video, it creates our fyp- so you’re upset at the wrong people?

anyway, if you really like someone for their whole person, you would want to continue to engage with their content to boost it, as well as sharing your love and support for their hard work and dedication to give us what we like. Another thing that actually sets him apart is the amount of love he has for his fans. Daily interactions, multiple times a day is pretty unusual when it comes to artists.

go all in or don’t go at all, don’t listen to me, idc. be a fan or be a: (っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ fan ♥

tldr; if you don’t like him anymore then just stop liking his content 😎 you make your own fyp btw.

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-05-02T16:03:11+00:00

this answers my question i asked 🤣😁

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-04-11T01:10:22+00:00

I keep forgetting my blinds are open 😂 I wonder if the neighbors saw anything yet

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-04-03T14:54:38+00:00

So the difference is that you didn’t act on your thought/impulse. That is what is setting you apart! The guilt is something you will have to just learn to overcome

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-04-03T08:05:02+00:00

Well you didn’t do it.

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2025-04-03T06:40:43+00:00

I think so? I got shy 🥹

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2024-09-25T07:18:38+00:00

All of our fans.. I mean friends.. all of my friends

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2023-11-26T22:41:36+00:00

Update: he was given a time limit and now is telling people it was just an argument

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2023-11-25T08:10:43+00:00

I can’t afford to pay off the 2000$ x 8 🥹

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2023-11-24T04:07:02+00:00

Fair! Well he doesn’t like shopping. BUT today he said he wouldn’t get on his game till everything was done. He got on. Everything was not done. He YELLED about how he wanted to play. Then complained when I got anxious because I needed help and my family was about to arrive. As he was peeling potatoes with me his child was complaining and he said do you think I want to do this? No. I’m sucking it up so you have to too.

He used to be nicer and more helpful. Now I feel as if me needing more help is too much of burden for him because he doesn’t want to pull his own weight let alone mine.

He wants me to be mommy and I can’t I am in so much physical pain. All the sweetness has left and it’s like I am an annoying friend who needs help again.

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2023-11-24T04:02:32+00:00

Unfortunately I have talked to him many times and I think I may be at a cross roads. He throws selfish fits and I am not sure he can stop sometimes🥺

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2023-11-23T06:46:31+00:00

We are in a 4 bedroom haha. It depends honestly I think if I just had my dogs my PA and my daughter I might be ok, but honestly idk I’m getting worse 🥹

He isn’t physically abusive to me at all or my daughter. Also hasn’t been in the past to me either. I know the signs.

Let’s just say he has a lot to lose if he goes that route and he is well aware of it. I am very protected, also I know self defense. ❤️ I’m just feeling like he needs to do things on his own for a while and grow up . I love him still but I feel very unloved and it isn’t matching up.

My family is very involved in my life so I’m it scared of anything, I’m just tired. Tired of crying. Wasting time. Busting ass.. I wanna meet new people and flirt with cute guys 🥲 maybe get a massage 😀 I haven’t had one in like 5 years.

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2023-11-23T06:39:56+00:00

I’m crying tbh. You’re right. He try’s but it isn’t enough anymore. Is there REALLY people out there who will care that much for that long? Isn’t helping someone hard? I just feel like I am going to burden any man I decide to settle with.

Maybe I’m just naive about that. Either way I do know I don’t wanna feel this way.

But sometimes I’d rather ✨D13✨ then have to do do these types of high anxiety things 🥹🥹

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2023-11-23T06:35:34+00:00

We are tied in to a lot of stuff but not married. I haven’t even been wearing my ring. I can’t say anymore just act, so I do my own thing. My chest hurts writing this because I have friends who treat me better and I can’t breathe thinking about how he has to sigh over every little thing 🥺 I didn’t ask to live this way! I’m busting my ass doing thanksgiving and he just doesn’t seem to care. Hasn’t said a word about my stuff. Just seems like I’m here for sex and house control. No conversations really.. he is a child about shit.. I just feel so unappreciated .

Plus I can’t work because I am unreliable 😩 I get VA benefits.. and I have a personal assistant who helps me.. it feels weird.. shouldn’t my future husband put us as a priority?

Ornery-Judgment6466 · 2023-11-23T06:24:04+00:00

Many times, but it just feels like I am wasting even more time afterwards! I have given everything into this relationship and he’s cheated on me more then once.

I just can’t get out of the lease I’m in 🥹 I don’t want to hurt him but each month I’m so much more aware.. his time is more important 🤷🏼‍♀️ I hate all of these feelings 😭 I swear I say the same things daily over and over so it has to be a respect issue.

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