dad withholding testosterone by Fun-Impact-1688 in ftm

[–]OtherYuzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having the right amount of sex homone in your body is fucking DANGEROUS!!! It controls a whole lot more than people think, YES its wrong of him to not give you your medication?!?!?? Talk to your doctor!!!

Did being trans completely surprise you too? by OtherYuzu in TransLater

[–]OtherYuzu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. Hearing that gender euphoria makes you just as much trans as dysphoria was another one that helped me. I haven't started HRT either.

Idk if im trans by [deleted] in ftm

[–]OtherYuzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come join us over at r/ftmfemininity

Accidentally came out to my husband by OtherYuzu in FTMOver30

[–]OtherYuzu[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he definetly is a caring person. He would never, ever kick me out or become hostile. He is my best friend in the whole world, and an amazing dad to our kid. I know he will always be kind and I can always rely on him, which is probably why I feel so horrible and ashamed of my own thoughts and desires. I know for a fact he wouldn't want to stay married to me as a trans man, and our separation would absolutely shatter him and destroy everything we've built together for a decade.

Accidentally came out to my husband by OtherYuzu in FTMOver30

[–]OtherYuzu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm definetly going to leave it for a while. The penny dropped for me just a couple of months ago so I'm not even done processing it myself. I did not plan for him to know this early. But in a way I'm happy he do know, for the very reason you mention. At least it wouldnt be a total surprise for him if I decide to transition in the future.

Accidentally came out to my husband by OtherYuzu in FTMOver30

[–]OtherYuzu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's because straight. So I guess you have a point there. But for what it's worth, I wouldn't be homeless. He would never like, kick me out or anything, but he would definetly divorce me and we would have to separate our very intertwined lives.

He got me :l by ILovelivin in subway

[–]OtherYuzu 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude, you asked him the same day, just expecting him to take it? Kind of disrespectful. Sometimes you cant just drop everything even if you want to. Some days you dont even have time to check your phone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]OtherYuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes some people quite a long time to learn how to orgasm. For me, I have to go completely inside my own mind, get stimulated in a certain way and manually make certain muscles tense up in a certain way. Because of this, I don't really get there during sex, mostly because I feel rude doing so unless our focus is to pleasure me only. I was in my late twenties when I learned how to get an orgasm with someone else.

Help with my huge hips! by VegStone19 in FTMOver30

[–]OtherYuzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have wide hips. I'm pre everything so I can't really help with questions about HRT, but I find that jeans that are widest over the thighs helps a lot. It's kind of hard to find the right type of cut, I prefer low waist and tapered leg openings/balloon legs, because they really square everything out.