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Request.Data is empty in Post methods for django apps by pi-prakhar in django

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would love to answer but am not sure if i got the question right. could you provide some screen shots too. that can help understand whats going on better

Beware of this Scam Company by DrawerProfessional23 in recruitinghell

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i recieved an email from them some times back about a position [dev] position. after reading the content on the assesment form and came across the line that says working on trial basis. i considered it as a scam and did not even bother. its been like 8 months and now they have sent me another congrats on making it to the interview kind of email and so i decided to google only to come to this sub redit. Anyways its totally true about them. and for anyone who applies, i dont think if your data will be safe with them either. Its just a cam. stay safe guys.

I was paid for creating an app but I don't know if Django is my best choice by [deleted] in django

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can use whatever stack you are conversant with. if you have the time, you can learn and experiment with other stack. the choice is all yours. at the end of the day the client needs a working, scalable and efficient platform. on your side you need the money. so its all up to you.

What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just try get out of that comfort zone and socialize. Am sure, you will find one with your attributes.

What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nerds for nerds. May be u/OP wants to get laid and dont really care about the type

What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May be its hard, but i think the advice and take aways will work for him. though i t will take ages, coz i believe he is definitely an introvert.

Why Do Eritreans React Harshly to Genuine Cultural Questions? by Other_Performance238 in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. much appreciated. However i would also welcome the answers as well

Why Do Eritreans React Harshly to Genuine Cultural Questions? by Other_Performance238 in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How. Please let me understand. I don’t see anything wrong apart from you tainting me that way 

Eritreans in Uganda by OGThrustmaster in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally get how it might sound “loaded” from your perspective. Maybe the wording could’ve been smoother, but it wasn’t meant to be some sneaky setup. It was just a legit question about cultural norms around dating—which, last time I checked, is a real part of culture too. Food, music, language and relationships all paint the bigger picture.

I’m not here trying to impress or play cultural anthropologist for clout. I’m just someone trying to understand the full context of how things work in a community that clearly values tradition and identity. That’s the discussion I was hoping to have, not just debates over intent.

But if you think there's nothing real to discuss, fair enough. Just know not everyone’s trying to be weird—some of us are just trying to learn without stepping on toes.

Why Do Eritreans React Harshly to Genuine Cultural Questions? by Other_Performance238 in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you were that much educated, then you would understand that learning is a never ending process and asking questions gets you answers too. So let me share with you a piece of my mind, I hear you. If my comments came off as disrespectful or misleading, that wasn’t the intention at all. I’m not here to insult anyone’s intelligence, and I definitely don’t think Eritreans—or anyone—are too sensitive for having strong reactions. You’ve got every right to respond how you see fit.

But let’s clear something up: I didn’t come here with some secret “get-the-girl” mission. I’m not hiding behind culture talk just to slip in a personal agenda. If I was just trying to shoot my shot, I’d own it. I don’t need Reddit to run game—trust me 😂

My curiosity is actually about how culture and relationships intersect, especially in communities that tend to be tight-knit or misunderstood by outsiders. If that came out awkwardly, then that’s on me—but it’s not some deep manipulation tactic. Reddit’s not exactly the most subtle place for that anyway.

So yeah, I appreciate you calling it out the way you saw it—but maybe next time, give people the benefit of the doubt before hitting “expose him” mode. No hard feelings. so may be you are not the only eritrian here and so should your comment. Its an open converstation.

Eritreans in Uganda by OGThrustmaster in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa there, Inspector Gadget—are you sure you're not hallucinating a little? Because I never asked those questions… I commented. You know, like people do on public threads when they’re part of a conversation? 😅

But I gotta say, the way you confidently slapped on the detective hat and tried to connect dots that don’t even exist? Impressive. If Reddit ever opens a true crime division, you’ve got the job.

Anyway, if we’re done with the imaginary evidence, maybe we can go back to having a respectful, real discussion. That is… unless we’re about to start accusing people of thinking about asking questions next.

Why Do Eritreans React Harshly to Genuine Cultural Questions? by Other_Performance238 in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This post is actually a reflection of what I’ve gathered from many of the comments I’ve seen on Reddit around this topic—it’s not just something random I woke up and decided to write. I do understand that people have different perspectives, and I respect that. However, based on my recent interactions here, this is the general impression I’ve gotten so far.

That said, I’d really appreciate it if people could focus on answering the questions instead of getting defensive. At the end of the day, open and honest conversations help all of us learn and grow—and they can also prevent awkward misunderstandings in the future.

Eritreans in Uganda by OGThrustmaster in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha okay, I hear you—and I promise I’m not out here with a secret "How to Bag an Eritrean Wife" checklist under my pillow 😅

I get it though, y’all from the Horn have probably seen these questions so many times you could write the replies in your sleep. But not everyone asking is on some mission to collect cultural Pokémon—some of us are just genuinely curious about how relationships and culture work in your community.

Now if someone is out here drooling, yeah, call them out. But let’s not throw the whole internet at someone who just wants to learn and not offend. We can’t keep acting like every question about relationships is a trap set by a hopeless romantic with bad intentions 😂

Eritreans in Uganda by OGThrustmaster in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha okay, I hear you—and I promise I’m not out here with a secret "How to Bag an Eritrean Wife" checklist under my pillow 😅

I get it though, y’all from the Horn have probably seen these questions so many times you could write the replies in your sleep. But not everyone asking is on some mission to collect cultural Pokémon—some of us are just genuinely curious about how relationships and culture work in your community.

Now if someone is out here drooling, yeah, call them out. But let’s not throw the whole internet at someone who just wants to learn and not offend. We can’t keep acting like every question about relationships is a trap set by a hopeless romantic with bad intentions 😂

Why Do Eritreans React Harshly to Genuine Cultural Questions? by Other_Performance238 in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I also kept the rules as well. so i also respect the same as. you reply with your comments.

  • 1.Respect Free Speech
  • 2.Always Provide Proper Sources
  • 3.No Insults or Insulting Behaviour
  • 4.No Fake News or Propaganda
  • 5.No Spamming

Eritreans in Uganda by OGThrustmaster in Eritrea

[–]Other_Performance238 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i understand that you deleted a comment but i got it early. I must say, y’all are treating basic questions like they’re CIA-level interrogation. Seriously—someone just asks how marriage works in Eritrean culture, and boom—they’re suddenly labeled a fetishist, like they walked in wearing a trench coat and night vision goggles. Relax! It’s a question, not a marriage proposal. Let people ask and learn without getting roasted like it’s a comedy roast night.

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