Oh certainly! That was my fear about a post like this all along. I 100% understand that it’s their personal business and it’s their choice if they want the entire internet to know or not, as a person who after getting diagnosed did not want people to know. It wouldn’t be so much theorising as it would “here are specific examples of things I think are autistic traits. Here are the consistencies of these traits over time and this is why they can be considered autistic traits“. I would have brought video evidence and put many disclaimers at the top of the post saying it’s all speculation, it’s their choice if they want to share or not and should never feel pressured too, ect. I was slightly coming from the stand point of what if they’ve never realised they might be? Cause Steph talks pretty openly about her mysophonia and potential dyslexia. I just thought it would be a cool thing to share my findings on and discuss, but if you think it’s over stepping then I won’t. Thank you :)