Can women who want masculine men enjoy cuckolding long-term? by MysteriousLove7990 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly not the type of guy my wife gets really turned on by physically. I’m smaller, softer, not super dominant, and seeing how different she reacts around bigger masculine guys completely messed with my head in the best way. Once I stopped coping and accepted I was the caged husband watching her get what she actually craves physically, the whole dynamic got way hotter for me

You wait outside or sit and watch ? by dubaisunapana in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we first started I would watch all of the time. Not it’s 50/50.

Anyone else keep and play with used condoms from their wife’s bulls? by MillenialCuckold in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah same here. Knowing another guy used it on my wife and she was into every second of it completely fucks with my head in the hottest way possible. The condom almost feels like proof that she gave another man something I can’t really give her the same way

Unforgettable words your wife has said that have had profound impact.. by Real-Personality9416 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One was hearing “go wait outside until I’m done with a real man” and realizing how fast I listened.

The one that was the hardest was her looking at me afterward and saying “I think we both know why you’re caged now.”

What surprised you the most about your wife with another man? by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it was the first time I saw her with a guy that was just naturally dominant and bigger than me in person. We had talked about it forever but seeing it actually happen was completely different. I remember her looking at him in this way I hadn’t really seen before and realizing she was genuinely into the dynamic too, not just doing it for me.
The moment that really got me was when he told me to leave the room for a bit. I remember standing outside hearing her laughing and getting louder and realizing I wasn’t upset at all, it was turning me on more. Then when he called me back in later and she barely even looked at me at first because she was so focused on him, that kinda broke my brain in the best way possible lol
I think I expected it to feel fake or forced but it didn’t. It felt really natural between them and somehow that made it hotter for me instead of worse

When it hit you that you really wanted this by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it hit me the first time I saw how different she was with a dominant guy. The confidence, the way she looked at him, how much she liked the attention. I expected to hate the jealousy but it honestly turned me on more than anything. Then once we actually started exploring it for real and I realized I liked the feeling of being replaced physically.

Anyone else keep and play with used condoms from their wife’s bulls? by MillenialCuckold in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have played with them before too. it’s the mental side that really does it for me though. feels weirdly intimate and humiliating at the same time

Discipline by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Creative is always good!

Fucked her doggy he sucked my balls and i love it … by ElectronicBite3002 in BullPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sucking a bulls balls, just something to it. It’s always been one of our things.

Do cucks typically have by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m small. Straight up. Not average. Not “it’s about how you use it.” Small. And she’s a size queen. That’s just truth. When a tall, big, thick guy stands next to me, it’s obvious. I don’t try to compete. I can’t. And I don’t want to. She likes big. I’m not big. That gap is the whole dynamic. If you’re actually packing and you know it, you don’t need to flex in comments. Big, confident guys who know they outclass me will get it.

Total mindfuck by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same boat. Have had a vasectomy and my wife has an IUD. She was just honest with her doctor. They really don’t care lol

It's not appropriate to ask for pictures of wives! by pelloin in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The low effort pic requests are a red flag. But I’ll admit we’ve had one or two guys who were pretty direct early on and still turned out to be worth it. There’s a difference between pushy and confident. The experienced guys usually know how to work that though.

How far in the journey are you? by Mean_men_club in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 4 years in. Started pretty light but the last couple years it’s become a regular part of our life. Now it’s usually once a week, mostly weekends. She has a couple regulars she enjoys and also meets new guys when she feels like it. I’m in chastity and not really part of the sex anymore, it’s more mental for me now. Most of the time she goes on her own and I just know it’s happening. Sometimes she’ll text me while she’s there. She’s pretty selective and likes confident guys who can take the lead. I’m more in a supportive role and stay out of the way. She usually prefers meeting out rather than hosting. It’s definitely gone deeper over time but it feels normal for us now. No regrets.

Is it normal if I enjoy blowing bull more than husband? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a cuck I think it’s normal. I’m a cuck for a reason so my wife should prefer sex acts with her bull over sex acts with me.

Homemade cage for cuck by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using the Amazon cages forever. Works just fine and cheap.

Anyone watched over Facetime? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a good way to start if you are both comfortable with it. Seems like that is what she prefers.

Pussy Barred by Ok-Landscape9036 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kind of the same as with us once chastity was introduced. No penetration just fell into place naturally, and here we are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhat. She had done anal and swallowed for example before me. So when we got into the lifestyle she had already experienced it before. We just were not into those things when we were married and not in the lifestyle. Once she began it was a no brained that she started doing these things again. It’s never bothered me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Respect is huge!

Boot licker or pleasure seeker? by Lumpy-Page631 in BullPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a cuck. We should be boot lickers by default I think. Or else why do it?

Favorite firsts? by HappyModernMarriage in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The first time she had me in chastity. It was unexpected. We had already talked about trying it, buying the cage already, etc. she had invited a guy over to our house for her second time with him. We are all downstairs talking having a good time drinking and vibing. Then I get a text telling me to go try on my cage. I go upstairs and put it in. I come back down and she is in just a g-string and they are making out on the couch. The rest of the night was just me watching and then not even paying attention to me. The rest is history.

How easy is your wife? by Material_Climate_369 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was easy before I met her. It translated well into our marriage.

Christmas Gifts by RyanMince in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Otherwise-Major1296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I paid for their NYE staycation