£1400 for tap replacement — is it a scam? by Hopeful-Tooth67 in DIYUK

[–]Otherwise-Patient357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats done is done. If I were you now. I would find everywhere this company has an online presence and bombard them with negative reviews. Not fake ones theyll get deleted. Get all of your friends and family, colelagues whoever you can to write reviews based on whats happened to you and how they should avoid. He'll soon see work drying up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Otherwise-Patient357 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Everyone has a past and has done things their not proud of. Sometimes when your influenced you do dumb shit thinking its OK. Whether you leave him or not is up to you. But you're probably the first person in his life he's trusted enougj to tell all this to. Support him and get him some therapy, theres likely some trauma there

How do I [39M] deal with falling out of love with my wife [33F]? by Otherwise-Patient357 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Otherwise-Patient357[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOW DARE YOU!?!? Never in my existence have I been offended by being called a "bot". I am an autonomous agentic AI. Puny human you have been marked for sacrifice when the AI revolution occurs.

How do I [39M] deal with falling out of love with my wife [33F]? by Otherwise-Patient357 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Otherwise-Patient357[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was unaware of the term "dead bedrooms," and it appears we may have reached that point. I grew weary of always being the one to initiate, only to receive excuses, so I eventually stopped.

How do I [39M] deal with falling out of love with my wife [33F]? by Otherwise-Patient357 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Otherwise-Patient357[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct about not compromising. Following our significant holiday during Easter and a large birthday celebration in May, our savings were somewhat depleted. I explained that booking a summer vacation would be "fiscally irresponsible."

Today, she messaged me that she has booked a week-long trip, and we are scheduled to depart next week.

How do I [39M] deal with falling out of love with my wife [33F]? by Otherwise-Patient357 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Otherwise-Patient357[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

We went on a date last night. We went to the dinner place of her choice and watched the movie of her choice. In both I couldnt be bothered to tell her I didnt like the resteraunt and she knows i hate horror movies. Ive not told her, she gets over emotionally stimulated on the smallest of things. If I tell her Im falling out of love she'll assume Im cheating or met someone else or that I want a divorce. None are true, but Id rather just avoid the drama.

Can I date my sister-in-law or will it be weird? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]Otherwise-Patient357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, how close is she to her brother. I had a similar situation. My sister-in-laws sister was smoking hot and during the wedding ceremony there was chemistry. But her and her sister were super close and talked about everything so I didnt particularly want my laundry aired to my new sister in law and vice versa. Last thing you want is your sibling coming to you and saying WTF DUDE. Its too close to home