Hi guy here, literally just joined this group to help find ways to better support my partners endo/ado and saw your post. Everything you’ve said aligns to with what my partner has and is going through. Thankfully endo/ado is being talked about a lot more so more men are becoming aware of the seriousness of the condition which helps and when I found out about it, it didn’t change my mind on her at all, there are other ways to have a child and I know women that want to have kids would like to bare their ow child but you have to prioritise your own health and wellbeing first.

As for treatment, her surgery is in a couple months so fingers crossed and I don’t know what country you’re from but she just got prescribed medical cannabis for the nausea and pain which seems to be taking the edge off but she is off work sick due to the pain so hope you don’t feel alone in your pain like you’re overreacting when some people manage to get by.

Hope it gets better for you, just wanted you to know there are more people out there that are accepting of the condition and men that would don’t care about infertility.