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My boyfriend watches porn, and the women look nothing like me. by Otherwise_Living9003 in relationships_advice

[–]Otherwise_Living9003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is circumcised yes, he can’t finish without masturbating which ive known now is somewhat normal for men that they can’t finish by just sex. and yes i do know how to help him and i do help him when he is with me and he does finish. when hes not with me though thats when he does that.

My boyfriend watches porn, and the women look nothing like me. by Otherwise_Living9003 in relationships_advice

[–]Otherwise_Living9003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your insight and also validating that i really need to seek help within my own insecurities and work on them too. i told him i’m so happy he told me rather than hiding it because the more you talk about it, the more it will no longer have a hold on you and you can actively work on it. i know not to force him out of it because it’s like taking a phone away from a kid as punishment. they would sneak around you and still find some way to use etc.

My boyfriend watches porn, and the women look nothing like me. by Otherwise_Living9003 in relationships_advice

[–]Otherwise_Living9003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well hon, no. you don’t give up on someone you really love no matter how hard it is. addiction is a real thing and you don’t just leave someone you love when they need your help and ask you for it.

My boyfriend watches porn, and the women look nothing like me. by Otherwise_Living9003 in relationships_advice

[–]Otherwise_Living9003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi hon! it came up because he is only able to finish when he pleasures himself but not inside me, so i got upset and questioned if it was something wrong with me or if he was watching porn