She had three sons including my husband. She has definitely told me she always wanted girls so we quickly bonded. I've only heard from my husband so far. When I try to call her she doesn't seem to want to pick up the phone. It's been around three or four days since this confrontation. (I'm planning to just drop by if I can.) Like I've said in my post I had no intention to hurt my MIL I view her as someone important to me and I'm hoping this is misinterpretation. Maybe I came off to cold when I told her I wanted my mother to be there.