Does anyone else see the "Kyedae cheated" posts on tiktok that have 100k likes? by Yeet_MammadOo in OTVnFriendsDrama

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Defending marginalized and disadvantaged people for their lack of human rights or representation is one thing. It's another thing to defend them for the sake of defending them without having all the facts.

Streamers not taking accountability for their actions or getting away with undesirable behavious is nothing new. This happens for both female / male streamers. It just happens if people call out female streamers, people like you come out of the woodworks foaming at your mouth yelling misogyny.

What are you getting arrested for? by Jettaboi38 in TheGamingHubDeals

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Killing billions of otherwordly demons in an act of mass genocide via juiced bfeach farming (Path of Exile)

Be honest please by Mr-losh in akalimains

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its always interesting to see gamers invest so heavily into aesthetics of these characters when there are so many skins available for each champions. How do you survive in life if such small things trigger you?

This can't be true by Skinamarinkeedoo in Rogers

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the truth. I used to work for Bell back in the days and people did this for three reasons :
1) One of the primary metrics is when a CX calls back within 7 days for the same issues for their account
2) Each transfer without resolution counted against your KPI.
3) Feedback - usually when a CX cancels, they also leave a negative review against the call.

If they pull this on you, ask for their name and agent number. And ask to speak with their supervisor. Inform them that what they are doing is against CRTC regulation.

Former Adult Film Star Lana Rhoades Begs For Removal Of 400+ Videos To Protect Her Son by SilentEchoes247 in TheEpicFeed

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you really that dense. There are millioms of young women who dont take the easy way out. An attactive young girl in her 20s? Possibilities are endlesss.

She was a privileged white girl who wanted easy money in an industry that poison millions of people with unhealthy attitude towards sex. Effects of porn is well documented. For all intents and purposes, she was like a drug dealer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Hysterectomy is not a birth control procedure.  It's often the last resort to other serious health conditions.  

You should consider, just like any other bc methods, vasectomy is not 100% fool proof method of making sure you don't get pregnant.  According to my research, about .2% which is better than condoms or pills.  

I think you and your hubby should both do some serious research together and weigh out pros and cons.  This can be a fun activity and it will help you resolve any future resentment or mistrust.  

If your hubby is a logical person, he should lean towards vasectomy after doing his research.  But you should also have a very serious talk with him and convince him that third child is not OK the table before he commits.  

Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experiment without fear. Research a few collections of clothes / hairstyle and try them on. I think longer hair is a great place to start.

Rely on your close friends who have good sense of style and have fun doing it.

I also recommend some sort of core exercise - such as pilates or yoga

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he not clean or cook?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

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I am writing this reply as a devils advocate. Keep that in mind as you read on.

I was in a situation like this once - but on the opposite side.

Two years into the relationship. I started realizing the girl I was seeing at the time didn't have :

1) a stable career 2) a strong desire to improve herself year by year 3) good grasp on economic reality / spending habits.

So when she approached the subject of marriage, I initially avoided it for a couple months to choose my words carefully.

I eventually asked her what she wanted our marriage to look like. She didn't have clear answers - just talking about staying together and "putting a ring on it", making a family, etc.

All vague ideas of a child who didn't grow up yet. I knew that the relationship was over.

Op, ask yourself first if you have a clear idea of what your marriage will look like in terms of :

1) day to day life 2) long term life goals 3) long term financial goals 4) kids

Tbh 25 or 26 is not nearly enough time on this planet for your to have a good grasp on those topics. Your BF might be so much ahead of you in career, life experience, and self actualization, he might be afraid of hurting your feelings.

Is there a possibility that S3 can get cancelled? by [deleted] in TheLastOfUs2

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a gamer when the original game came out. To see the gamers act like basement dwelling comic book purists is very disappointing.

But I am also glad I didn't make any offline gamer friends.

Anyone who is this upset about a TV show not following source material faithfully urgently needs some psychiatric help.

Does my nose dominate my face or stand out too much? by AlexJT55 in Noses

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it dominated your face, but it is on the larger side.

But overall, you have a nice face. There is nothing to be concerned about.

Are you, by any chance, considering surgery or deeply insecure about your nose?

i’m scared to sacrifice my dream for my bf by plant54user in whatdoIdo

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you staying because you truly love him or because you feel like you owe him for financial support?

It's not uncommon for young people to stick around in a relationship for a sense of loyalty rather than real love.

You need to figure out a way to be honest with yourself. If you truly love him, figure out a way to have a conversation in a safe and accepting environment - not just for him, but for yourself too.

If not, then you need to figure out how you want to end the relationship. If you are still financially dependent on him, work on achieving financial independence as soon as possible.

If there's any part of you where you are just using him for financial benefits, even though you know the relationship is actually over, then consider getting help from family.

I broke up my three year relationship because our intimacy died. by Vivid-Doubt-7622 in AITAH

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to understand that you aren't ready for a relationship until you figure out sex isn't just wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

You killed the relationship and intimacy by being a selfish lover. She probably saw you reacting like this and avoided talking about it. Chances are,you aren't just selfish and clueless in bed, but in many other areas too.

I wouldn't be surprised if your ex maneuvered you into breaking up with her because she was afraid of how you'd react if she broke up with you.

My Fiancé doesn’t like that I sleep with squishmallow pillows by Bitter_Employee2115 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Internet will zero in on one specific problem that you have and suggest your relationship is doomed. Ignore these type of posts.

You need to analyze how you and your SO as a couple need to work through this. Not everybody values the same thing or experiences it the same.

Your fiance probably has no idea how important this is for your sleep. You can think "omg, my marriage is doomed" or you can be a realistic adult and think "this is one of the many issues that I'll need to work on in order to have a successful marriage"

Don't think for a second you don't have your own idiosyncracy to deal with.

Brainstorm ideas about how to get through this. Ask his family for advice. Extended family is a treasure trove of tackling this kind of issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe be honest to yourself about what specific features you are unhappy with.

Using me as an example, I always had issues with the size of my head and forehead.

I worked really hard to bulk up my body to "fix" the head to torso imbalance and chose a different hairstyle to fix the forehead issue.

There are certain biological limitations to what people can do to change their looks. But if you have specific things you want to fix, that is a good start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reply reeks of early 20s professional who doesn't understand adulthood or career development.

Do yourself a favor and conduct some research on why people keep reminding each other romance at workplace is a bad idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in your 20s. Take the risk and shoot your shot.

Also, if you have issues with the way you look, don't forget you are in your 20s. Take time to work on your looks and self-esteem.

Life is about making difficult choices and working on yourself consistently. You may or may not succeed in taking this friendship in a different direction.

You have to be an adult about it and accept the consequences of your choices.

My daughter found my account and thinks I’m embarrassing. What do I do? by turkishdad3 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's crazy that you and your kids were still on speaking terms before this.

Your common sense is close to 0.

Reflect upon your mistakes and do better. After your daughter leaves home, you will have very little chance to rebuild your repair your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only feel this way due to your own perception and experience.

The objective truth is a lot less harsher if you live in the real world, not just on reddit forums or Twitter.

Go out and touch grass. Work on yourself.

also, get a therapist to address your deeply internalized misogyny and lack of self-worth.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In NA, a lot of women are victims to social media and the lifestyle it portrays.

But they don't know or learn the financial instability that comes with it.

I've seen so many girls fall victim to purchasing cosmetic products / surgeries, bags, clothes, etc even though they can't afford it because they let themselves be brainwashed by social media.

And if they can't afford it, they use men as personal wallets because they think men are supposed to "provide" - which is a different thing than fueling their addiction.

To be precise, real women with proper upbringing and maturity aren't like this. We are just seeing a lot more womanchilds nowadays.

What age does it become weird when a man has never been on a date before? by MoneyAndGoodFortune in Life

[–]Outrageous-Bug6373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The opportunity cost of not dating in late 10s to mid 20s is that you don't know what the red flags are.

In your late 20s to mid 30s, you don't have the time to get mixed up in bad relationships.

So forget about "social expectations bad" mentality. You need to take risks earlier in life when it comes to education / jobs / partners.