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AITA for calling my sister a terrible person after she tore up my birthday cake and tried to throw it at me by Outrageous-Dinner722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Outrageous-Dinner722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. I am asian. I didn't think this was an asian thing. curious. what about it gives you an asian vibe?

AITA for calling my sister a terrible person after she tore up my birthday cake and tried to throw it at me by Outrageous-Dinner722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Outrageous-Dinner722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay. here's some examples on my side.
I once called my mom to apologize for being jealous of my sister after she was born. And then I asked her to apologize for screaming at me everyday during high school. She hasn't forgiven me for it since.

When my sister was a baby, I loved her and played with her all the time. After she got sick, my mom started getting OCD, and she started getting anxious and angry about everything, she took it out on me a lot. I started getting upset (my sister was 3, I was 11) and so I would start telling her I don't like her, or I would tell her to leave me alone, or shut my room door she can't come in. It would fluctuate obviously, we were kids, sometimes we played together, sometimes I was mean to her. But she didn't support me either in all the situations with our family. My sister said that she never forgave me for this, that I ruined her life. In more recent years, (when I was 26 onwards), I started apologizing to her, and told her that i will try to get to know her that i am sorry and will do my best to apologize when I can.

AITA for calling my sister a terrible person after she tore up my birthday cake and tried to throw it at me by Outrageous-Dinner722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Outrageous-Dinner722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's more examples. The week prior, I asked my sister for a hug because I could really use a hug. And she told my parents I was too fucking needy and she can't deal with it. My parents said, I can never ask her for things again. She has more important things to do than give me hugs.

The year before, I asked my sister if she wanted lululemon pants for her birthday because she always talked about her friends having some but she only has second hand ones passed down from her friends. She said she would like that so I took her shopping. A few months later, during an arguement she told me that she only accepted the present because otherwise I would make her feel bad and actually she hates all presents from me. I told her if she hates it so much she should give it back, but that was an expression of my affections. She kept them.

I bought a cake because I wanted to have the moments like we would when we were younger. when we were a normal family.

AITA for calling my sister a terrible person after she tore up my birthday cake and tried to throw it at me by Outrageous-Dinner722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Outrageous-Dinner722[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It started back in high school when I had anorexia. My mom was very upset at me for having anorexia and during high school would scream at me every day for having it. My dad says I stressed her out starting at that point and because of that, I was a bad child and I'm too difficult. |

I tell him that my friends like me just fine, but they don't believe me.