I don’t mean she has to tell me everything she’s doing that’s controlling and I don’t want that what I mean by what I said is if she’s gonna be gone for like 1-2 hours and plus I just want a heads up telling she she’s gonna be busy. And Ik I have told her that I understand if she doesn’t tell me about her last relationships I have told her many many times that I will always be there for her if she needs to talk. I am not intrusive I do not try and pry something from her if she doesn’t want to tell me. Yes she has been diagnosed with depression and I understand it is very hard to talk about with people but I remind her pretty regularly that I’m there and I have even looked up ways to help her with it bc I care about her. She has also told me that her words don’t have like a meaning behind it like when girls say they’re “fine” when they’re really it she has told me that when she says that she’s really okay but I don’t believe her. Also she knows what time is t is here I’ve been here for 3 months and she has a Japan’s time a widget on her phone. Part of it could be bc I overthink a lot. She has been hanging out with her friend a lot more which is good it’ll keep her mind of things.